BlogHide Resteemsssimkins9 (53)in steemitzombies • 7 years agoBeauty In Struggle | SteemitzombiesSteemit zombies is a community and set of guidelines for encouraging the non-spammy reposting and curation of undervalued posts. Steemit zombies must use the #steemitzombies tag as a first tag…ssimkins9 (53)in story • 7 years agoWhy You Should Become a Story Collector (and how)I have always been captivated by the prowess of a gifted story teller. These people are able to lead others through unfolding events in a way that builds tension and engagement. But there is someone…ssimkins9 (53)in psychology • 7 years agoPuke and Ponytails: A Story of Self-Loathing and TriumphIt started at 4 am. My eldest daughter, Lyla, stumbled into our dark room and whimpered “mom, dad, I’m sorry. 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Think about it, when was the last time you went 20 minutes without something begging for your…ssimkins9 (53)in community • 7 years ago6 Questions to Leverage Your Community and Learn More About YourselfHow well do you know yourself? It may be obvious, but you have special access to knowledge about yourself that no one else has--google "self-knowledge" or "epistemic privilege" if you want to nerd…ssimkins9 (53)in parenting • 7 years agoReuniting a Mother with Her Kidnapped ChildrenA couple of months ago I shared that I was taking on a case involving two internationally kidnapped children. I'm a lawyer and I really enjoy being able to take on meaning assignments pro bono…ssimkins9 (53)in steemit • 7 years agoWhat is the STEEM Response to Contraband: Child Pornography, Identity Theft, Etc?If you're reading this, you probably know at least a thing or two about blockchain technology. 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Allowing her to go was a tough call for my husband and me because she is just showing interest in boys and, well, we know things can…ssimkins9 (53)in community • 7 years agoYou Need Your Tribe to Expand Your PerspectiveNews Flash: You're human. Your ability to perceive and evaluate a situation is rather limited. That should come as no surprise to anyone without a god-complex. But maybe you're still a little…ssimkins9 (53)in parenting • 7 years agoYour Screen Time is Ruining Your Kids' Playtime.If you have been paying any attention, you have probably seen some debate or talk about what healthy screen time looks like for young kids. Screen time being time that a person spends looking at a…ssimkins9 (53)in psychology • 7 years agoWe Are More Similar Than DifferentI am in a group that I love very much. Twice a month, twelve people gather together early Saturday morning. We meet in the back room of a 118 year old church on Detroit's east side. We are all there…ssimkins9 (53)in psychology • 7 years agoThrough The Mud Pit of Grief. It Hurts, Yet You Must Keep Going.Grief is something different. It's not sadness, anger, or loneliness. It often includes all of those, but there is more. There is something unique about pulling yourself to wade into the grieving…ssimkins9 (53)in community • 7 years agoRunning a Meaningful Contest: Winners and ReflectionsLast week I posted my half-way-point update on my Steemit goal. I am trying to stick to an aggressive blogging schedule for 100 days. With that post, I also announced a contest that sought to…
