yes today i woke up and sat on my bed and for a while i thought to my self what really went wrong at some point in my life. And then i thought to my self of all the possible things i could have done to avoid, or either make it possible for it to succeed. Well it all came back to one thing surely, and that was FEAR!. yes, fear, fear, fear as it sounds it made my life miserable because i did not have the confidence to face the reality of my dreams, goals and targets possibly because of the few things i tried i literally failed at them all or succeeded in a few.
remember that Albert Einstein at his child hood was thought to be mentally challenged and his teachers told him he would never amount to anything. well, how about that because almost everything in science is almost based on his theories . yaa... what a hero because he was positive and never let those negative comments block his destiny. learn to be positive even if your own parents dont believe in you, its your future walk with it even if it means walking in FEAR it will go at some point. Micheal Jordan the best basket ball player of all time said "i can accept failure but i cannot accept not trying"
well most of us lose hope when we chase our goals and at some point we just fail on the brink of grasping it . This totally destroys all your motivations to work hard and go forward 🏆 because of one bad experience.😥 yes imagine this are the same plans, dreams , targets or goals that are meant to boost our confidence but instead we fail at some point and all our confidence is shuttered and FEAR kicks in to shadow our minds and spirits to focus on how to rebuild and move forward. FEAR destroys the mind by filling in negative thoughts that every time u want to try something new u just feel like its all impossible just because of one bad experience. FEAR kills the spirit by pouring in negative moods, frustration, sadness, anxiety, and many more that every time u think of a new positive idea Ur just over shadowed with negative energy that you just fail. well anyone who has never made a mistake or failed has never made anything new @Albert Einstein
The best way to perceived failure is to ask oneself these three powerful questions:
What did I learn from this situation? learn your own experiences and use your weaknesses in one of them to build up your strength in another situation. @nelson mandela " dont judge me by my successes but judge me by number of failures and times i got back up when i was dwon". now thats the fighting spirit.
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How can I grow as a person from this experience? one thing for sure is to allow your self to feel the fear, go through the cycle of fear when it comes because its only through it that u realise that your situation is solvable and before u even realise u find that your body is working hard to overcome the challenge and giving you all the best ideas to manage the situation.
What are three positive things about this situation? build up your self esteem and confidence and avoid this silly talk like " i'll never probably make it in anything" pliz avoid those negative statements.
And finally always have a plan B "contingency plan" incase things dont go as planned what next? that is the idea u will need to use to rise up to your feet.
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