RE: "Is it OK and normal for me to have 'space' in my relationship with my boyfriend?"

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"Is it OK and normal for me to have 'space' in my relationship with my boyfriend?"

in advice •  7 years ago  (edited)

And the closer you get to your partner, the more of your individuality you will lose.

Not necessarily. If one is secured in one's identity then they can even be emerged in the other's consciousness and still maintain their own self-identity.

This is why it's better to be in a relationship when one is centered and aware.

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Ys i agree and the goal in a relationship is to be close and still maintain an identity as a separate person. When people are in an individuated state, they are happier and more optimistic.They have a stronger sense of themselves so they are capable of more intimacy, love and passion in their relationship.
You are welcome @nomad-magus