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in africa •  7 years ago  (edited)

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I am an African child...or so they say.

Often, I think, apart from my skin the color of cocoa bean, and my thick, strong hair like my accent, what is African about me? Yes. Aside from my location on Google Earth and the skewed opportunities people there face, how unique am I among the rest of the world?

My mum once told me we had folktales and songs that imparted the wisdom of the elders to the young and connected us with our past. She said granny taught her early to braid hair, and at my age, she could balance a pot on her head and do the “inyanga” dance. But today our grandma only watches “American Idols”, and keeps up with the Kardashians too.

For a millionth time I have had to toss the remote myself because Thunderman, Batman, Antman and all the mans that matter don’t look like my brothers, and they don’t talk like me. Is it that TV don’t care about me, or because Uncle Achebe is gone? I am bothered that my brothers do not chant the songs of Orlando Pirates and Shooting Stars, yet they wear the history of Arsenal like sweater at harmattan.

You see, I also get worried that my school terms are named after Spring, Summer and Winter when our seasons are still rainy and dry. I can count with one hand the kids in my school that can speak our mother tongue. We are very few; and you might get punished for it.

But in all these I still know I am an African because during my holidays all I want to do is play in the open, feel my legs in the sand, hunt for birds and listen to stories from songs to which I have to respond. I wanted to visit Nairobi, see the famous yellow buses of Lagos and feel the artifacts at Benin. I crave to explore Dar es Salaam, Johannesburg, Cairo and Timbuktu. I am confident and proud because I am an African child from the paws of heroes. Like fine clay I have been refined by the heat of the Sahel; like blossoming palm I have flourished from the dews of Africa’s tropics. I am an African modelled to be brave like Nelson Mandela and sagacious like Cheikh Diop.

I am like Thomas Sankara, Wangari Maathai and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. I am moulded to be a lite of Angelique Kidjo and Didier Drogba. I am an African. I am Africa. I am in lite of Africa.


I dedicate this one to my MSP friend @sircork

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what a wonderful post. I must commend your originality, please keep it up. Africa is beautiful and i'm proud to be an African child and A son of the soil. Steem on friend.

Your boy @gbenga

Thank you, bro 😊. Amazing compliments.

Yeah
I couldnt agree more

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

I am impressed! And thank you for the kind dedication! When a guy in a country so far away from me uses words I have to look up in a dictionary, ("sagacious") I know I have befriended someone very smart, indeed! :D

"I can count with one hand the kids in my school that can speak our mother tongue. We are very few; and you might get punished for it."

THIS REALLY BOTHERS ME! I don't understand why you might be punished for what I can only call love of your nation, and it's history.

Resteemed!

Thank you @sircork for the HUGE compliments. Truly, I know words (Read that with the most Trumpy possible cadence). 😂😂

Really, it's a big cultural decay we are dealing with. Like my friend puts it, "the [legacy] of the private school system (and indeed contemporary lifestyles in Africa) is to beat the Africaness out of you." The archetypical image of a modern African social elite is one who speaks English with some fusion of American accents, wears foreign designers, have their kids school abroad (or have as little contact as possible with their environment in a case where the parents can't afford schooling abroad--and the private schools provide that haven of illusion). The extreme ones bleach their skins. Down here the term "local" is denigrating, and a reference to things to be avoided. Our languages are gradually getting endangered and we are not bothered.

It's crazy out here for us the woke minority. 😞😞

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

You have the best words. Yuge words!

It is crazy for those of us that are woke AF.

I am in a place where I am mixed in my emotions. I have a strong dislike for the "state" (government, rulers) but a strong attachment to my OWN country (patriotism, pride, love of the land and it's own natural beauty and vibrant internal history) and it makes for an uneasy mix sometimes.

It is up to us man, to retain the best parts of the past for our respective cultures and combat the homogenization of the future.

On the other hand, there are some good outcomes. Would either of us be here now, having this conversation together, if there were not?

Man I just read your post outloud to a friend in my office, and STUNNED her with your words. She said to let you know how elegant and eloquent your writing was and the story it tells. When she gets back to her own devices, she will be following you too! Keep an eye out for @alphaczarina. She's got some interesting stories to tell of her own.

Oh wow. That's interesting. I owe you a lot of gratitude. I will go right to her blog and bury my big head there 😊. Steemit rocks

She's brand new. I'm not sure she has made any posts yet, but she told me of one she has written and is preparing to post about lessons from Shakespeare that we can use today that sounded very promising. We have to stay tuned to see what she produces!

I noticed that. I followed her though. Tell her I look forward to that post 😉😉

Copy that, captain. Transmission will be resteemed.

Ahoy there! 👮

Im blushing right now for my friend @misterakpan
This community is really nice.

Great post. You are certainly an emerging writer. Like advised by someone else, keep it natural. Steem on bro.

Thank you very much. I feel honored.

one of the greatest challenges with Nigeria is half baked Westernization. we are not Westerners now, neither are we fully African, we are just seating on the fence. speaking your vernacular is now seen as a sign that you are not civilized but i ask, to be civilized, do you have to be educated? Igbo languge is now optional in many private schools here, i wonder what will happen to our own generation. nice one @misterakpan you just made a new friend, I hope the feeling is mutual..

@arizonawise

It's a sad thing to deal with. Where do we go from here? 😞
The feeling is mutual for sure. I'm now following you 😏

we shot our selves in the leg, and we are not even looking for a remedy. hope to meet one day. steem on! brother.

@misterakpan - You have captured the spirit of Africa in your writing. Well written. Upvoted

Thank you very much. I really hold the compliments to heart

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If you really write this , you are truly talented!

Wow. I'm really honored. Your complements buoy me

You kno what I am an indian. But since i have curly hair and a dark complexion my friends call me African. Although they dont mean it any negative way they often make fun of me. But i take it as a complement because i like the way Africans are. I like their lifestyle and their accent. I dont feel offended at all. Be positive and stay chilled.

Thank you brother. Maybe you should come to Africa and just get away from your friends for a while 😂. Thank you for reading me.

Every child is unique in their on little way I am proud of African people amidst the adversities they are facing they still manage to stand strong and continue their journey in this world... to all the African people good luck in your daily endeavor and may the Almighty Father bless and love you always...

Upvoted, this is very beautiful. I hope that one day you get to go to Nairobi and all the other places. Great post it was a nice little read.

😊 Thank you, Rachel

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Beautiful man! I'm glad i met you on the chat. It's interesting seeing your perspective on the decay of the ancient knowledge we all once had. It seems modernity truly is a double edged sword.

Your words were powerful, brought a tear to my eye, 100% for real. Those lines about your grandma and the way culture has been systematically pushed away broke my heart.

I can see you have a strong mind. I'm sending you infinite love waves my friend.

So where do we go from here? 😞
It's amazing to connect with you. That group is the best thing after peach 😋. I'll follow you right away.

Really enjoyed this. Looking forward to more.

Thank you so much. I will keep being my best self. Your remarks buoy me 😊

Nice story man

Gracias! 😊

African and proud

Yes boss! 😎

Thank you for the resteem @overthewait 😊

Proud african right here man, thanks for this. Nice to know.

bang! u hav anoda follower in me
kip it up

Thank you very much 😊. I'm honoured.

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See your post mentioned here

I'm saddened to hear that the mindscaping of young minds and old cultures has reached your country's schools. I'm also heartened to hear that you resist such and retain what you can/will of your proud heritage.

Is there no group or groups among your people that strive to keep the old ways alive? Have you ever asked your grandmother why she watches such foreign programming. Is she truly entertained by such things...or would she like to be among those who help re-educate the youth?

Here in Canada, the USA the original peoples have grouped together in the effort to keep old ways and languages alive. Perhaps one day you will see the value in such things.

For now it is enough to be young...and proud...strong...and full of aspirations.
Thank you for sharing @misterakpan, I'm happy to have met you in Discord this day.

This is not my heritage, I am Scottish on both sides...200+ years in Canada. Nothing of my family's heritage remains...although the sound of the bagpipes take my mind to an awful place. This link is but one facet of Canadian culture and I thought you might find it as fascinating as I.


Be well..be strong...be ever-young! ✌️

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The throat singing is lovely. Wow. It's oral as are lots of African cultures. A group not too far from me had an indigenous system of symbols that is hundreds of years old, long before any contact with the English. Guess what. It's all dead. The last that was left of the "nsibidi" were those used by the "ekpe secret society." And that too is dying rapidly 😞

I'm saddened to hear this. Here there are grants available to help preserve the older culture and customs. This isn't happening in Africa at all?

One would think, as the continent being the cradle of humanity, the anthropologists would be all about preserving as much as they can.

I'm truly upset that this isn't the case. :-/

Good morning sir!
Hope you had fun in the PAL net!!!
Peace!!✌

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I'm really impressed by your post ... I hit that follow and upvote

I'm really grateful you gave me a chance 😊

Resteemed ;)

You just got yourself a new follower
I like your article and I am looking forward in reading more posts from you
Keep it up

I see you, gory man! I'm following you right away. I look forward to your perspective too 😊

I like what you wrote. I'm from Guyana myself. If you want a platform for you. You have to create your own. Check

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

I love African culture and post-colonial literature. Your post is probably the best thing I've read on Steemit this first month I'm here. Thank you, thank you for sharing. African countries have such a beautiful and rich culture. I wish people there knew that and fought strongly to preserve it.

Upvoted, followed and resteemed.

Good post, fellow West African. Followed.

This is one of the most heartfelt, beautifully articulated and profound posts I've come across here. Reading what you've written, I couldn't but help feel your pain, your confusion, your determination, your attitude, your confidence and your pride. Wow! Truly. Hats off to somebody who can think/talk like that! Happy to know you, @misterakpan! Upvoted and following you for more! :) - @sandzat

I'm really grateful for those remarks. I'm following you right back

Beautifully put. Preserving our culture is important

I am a big fan of Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie too

Much love from a fellow African x

Thank you, Princess. It's amazing to connect with you. I'm Nigerian? How about you?

Hi my guy!

I am from South Africa😉 I see it all the time. People want to Americanize South African culture.

For example (a trivial one, but still an example) we have all the South African versions of over seas shows, ie The Great South African Bake off, Cone Dine with Me SA. Idols South Africa.

Why can't we be original and make a truly Mzansi show? I see people try, but they don't do well, because the public just wants what they've seen on TV ie Americana.

Brain washed much?

I guess we have found a common ground of misfortune 😂. In Nigeria the radio and TV hosts have accents as American as can be. It's sad

Very sad. As if being authentically African is not good enough?!

Indeed. Let's stay woke and help those among us we still can. I'll love to invite you to a minnow support community. Trust me the best folks I've met yet on Steemit are there.

https://discord.gg/s86ZRr if you're interested. Amazing community.

Hey! Is it PAL? I'm part of it already if it is. Will check out the link now

It's definitely PAL! 😂
What's your PAL name?

Ah! Steem speak. Also part of this. See you there 🤘🏽

Wow Awesome Post!Definitely Giving you a Follow;)

misterakpan very good your creativity... fm and fy

Beatiful post my dear friend.

I share your love for Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie . What a breathtaking author. I wouldn't be surprised if she had written these words.

What you get from me? Bro, its a WOW!!! This pieces is wonderful, but you know what? Either it's admitted or not we are going to prove our self as the future of our nation.... Let us start that by setting things right.

God bless Africa

I believe you, buddy. Let's strengthen this friendship.

Very good post