Relationship: Effects of infidelity in our Relationship

What do we understand by Infidelity???

Infidelity is simply known as unfaithfulness towards your spouse or in your marriage/relationship. In most relationship, we cheat without knowing we are cheating..
The main effect of infidelity or cheating is Distrust.
Trust is the foundation that marriage rests upon, but when it is broken, it often remains that way. A spouse can forgive, but that painful experience will lurk in the offended spouse’s mind. They won't want to let down their guards for fear that it could happen again. For some, it is easier to forgive than to forget. Trusting and getting hurt is bad enough. Who wants to walk blindly and chance it to happen again? It is not uncommon for a wounded spouse to put up barriers of protection.

When this happens it turns to Distrust! So let's talk about Distrust.
Distrust is very common between the spouses when one has cheated. Distrust is like padding to lessen the blow if cheating happens again. It is hoarded like rare coins and not easy to give up. On the other hand, it is certainly not impossible to trust again, but it usually does not happen easily or quickly.

How infidelity affects Relationship or Marriage:
Trust is the foundation that marriage rests upon, but when it is broken, it often remains that way. A spouse can forgive, but that painful experience will lurk in the offended spouse’s mind. They won't want to let down their guards for fear that it could happen again. For some, it is easier to forgive than to forget. Trusting and getting hurt is bad enough. Who wants to walk blindly and chance it to happen again? It is not uncommon for a wounded spouse to put up barriers of protection.

Distrust is very common between the spouses when one has cheated. Distrust is like padding to lessen the blow if cheating happens again. It is hoarded like rare coins and not easy to give up. On the other hand, it is certainly not impossible to trust again, but it usually does not happen easily or quickly.
How it affects:
Cheating doesn't only affect marriage. Cheaters victimize relationships with children, loving friends, other close family members, and themselves. Both cheaters’ families may suffer from pain, embarrassment, and awareness of community gossip.
Cheating is very dangerous because when you cheat you become harden towards your family.

Consequences of Infidelity:
Many cheaters think that they can repair damage to their marriage if their spouses discover their infidelities. They feel that it is just a matter of getting the offended spouse to forgive them. That could happen, but it may not always be that simple. Some of the following consequences could be long-term or irreparable in a marriage, home, and family after a spouse has been caught cheating:

1:broken trust
2:dysfunctional family
3: low self-esteem
4: severe depression
5: defamation of character
6: alienation of affection lawsuit
7: divorce
8: major financial changes due to a divorce
9:alienation or distancing of family members and friends
10: contraction of incurable STD’s
outside pregnancy
11: child support payments that take money away from the household, spouse, and children
12: “baby's mama” problems that could affect spouse and family's wellbeing
13: stalking
14:threatening or harassing phone calls
15: severe violence and risk of imprisonment.

But you can regain your lost trust but patience is a virtue. In other to regain your trust you have to totally leave your old life and act whole.

Cheating is never right in a marriage or any relationship, and excuses are not acceptable. Consequences are devastating for all involved, especially the offended spouse and children. Even the cheaters endure the negative consequences of their poor choices. They may be alienated by family and friends and may have to undergo a financial change due to a divorce and settlements.

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