It's good to carry our heads into a relationship too, and not be swept away by mere words which could have been said to tons of girls/men without meaning. Being inlove goes way beyond looks, cause definitely one day those looks will be gone and you're left with the real deal. My contribution is both men and women should know when to stop and say uh-uh not good for me. Now to the ladies, a good man will never put you in the position of not knowing where you stand with him.