As a lady, you must understand that a guy is never responsible for you financially until he marries you.
You have your life and family to take care of you and your finances before you get married, the guy too has his family, parents and siblings, to take care of.
It is nonsense for a girl to depend on or even be asking a guy he is not yet married to for money, except when she really needs it for something important that has to do with her studies, career, future or safety in urgency and she can't get it any other way. Not for mundane things.
How can you tell someone to be more responsible to you financially than he is to his family because you are in relationship with him? Who are you? His second mother or what?
If you allow someone to shower unnecessary financial attentions on you before he marries you, you might pay for it with financial neglect in that marriage.
Except when you are truly in need and he assists, you need not look up to any man you are dating or in courtship with for financial dependence. That is what sometimes turn some ladies to sex slaves, ritual victims and also make them to marry wrongly.
Because when they later realise that the guy is not the right person for them to marry or has a bad attitude or character that is not good for the kind of marriage they desire, they become hooked and unable to end the relationship because they are indebted to him.
To avoid this was one of the reasons why your parents trained you and sent you to school, they paid your school fees even when they had close to nothing. So that you can be independent at least till a certain stage of your life and over certain things, and then when you are married, you can support your husband while also fulfilling your personal dreams and visions in life. Not just being a slave, but only submissive to and supportive of your husband in love.
You have a good brain and you were trained and sent to school so that you will not be depending your life on a guy while in a relationship with him before marriage. And so that when you become married you can become something or someone special in life. Not being indebted to someone before marriage because he spent money on you unnecessarily.
Most of those who did that yesterday are regretting their marriages today. Don't join them. Be a wise lady.
However, that doesn't make you as a guy to become stingy to your girl. That's foolishness. If you truly love her, you will take good and godly care of her before you even marry her. But, in a good way and based on true love. Not so you can own her or control her because she is in a relationship with you.
Every girl must be wise enough to stand on her feet before marriage. You can learn something from My Queen on this.
Please every woman should be wise.