Peace, mercy and blessings of God
Today, my loved ones, I am talking about the experience of living and living with an American family
This letter may be of benefit to anyone who decides to live with a family during their stay abroad
When I packed my bags out of the country I had coordinated with the university to live with one of the American families,
There was not much clear vision about the experience of living with a foreign family
Although I was excited about her
Despite the thousands of students who have already experimented with this experiment
But I did not find anyone in my surroundings might have a similar experience to give me advice,
And even topics in the Internet give me a comprehensive touch.
Now after 4 months of my stay with family
With the end of this experience and moving to live somewhere else ..
I was able to make the impression that I could write this post ..
Do not say it's perfect, but it represents my point and I hope it will be useful to you 🙂
Living with family my friends have several positive aspects
The first is that it is often cheaper than housing in an apartment of course,
In addition, it gives you the opportunity to learn more about the culture of the country and of course to practice the language with its people more!
Of course, the success of living with a family depends heavily on the characters you live with.
Their laws, their number, their ability to tolerate your own violations if we assume they exist, etc.
It is difficult for everyone to have a similar experience, which is normal.
My family was just a 75-year-old old man
Although she always thought she was 40 years old.
Many people always think about the positives of being in the Winson family house
Is it ready to live with a family?
In other words, are we ready to live in a place that is not entirely ours?
Suppose our answer was yes, so what is our ability to tolerate this?
Actually .. because housing with a family mostly needs a long person Bal and Waseet released
Someone did not come to just stay!
Many people, some of whom have heard stories, come from the house of his father, may God preserve him
And thinks that the family home is the house of his father may God protect him as well .. I liked the metaphor
Do not confuse, you share your home now with another family ..
Please, respect their laws and not be a bad image of your countrymen who will come to live here after you
The strictness of the laws depends on the total dependence on the family of course, including soft and strict,
But the extent to which these laws are accepted depends primarily on you
Imagine where some people get angry if the family gives him notes! ,
And others tell them that he gave them Bflosh and thus not be entitled to his followers!
Social problems, brothers! "
Before you sign a contract with your family .. check everything possible
Laws .. What is allowed and what is forbidden .. What you and Maalik, and then entrusted to God and signed.
In the event that during your stay, there are some differences in views, which often happens with a quarter of us
Always remember, please be as diplomatic as you can
Do not always be frank about what you really feel towards them.
And if Egypt is to violate one of their laws
Do not become jihil and let them feel you Haha .. And where the heart of this?
If you are not 100% satisfied and believe me this is a natural thing and it gets when everyone else,
Do you know why ?
Because we are always comparing the accommodation with the family with a flat apartment on our own or with a friend, here's the problem!
Many resort to break the contract and go to live alone when the harshest problem has fallen
Taking the phrase "and God is my Lord" is a motto for them
Dear reader of this post, of course do not think that housing with a family will be like living alone in terms of calm and comfort .. Never.
Housing with family is work
This work consists of a commitment to the laws .. Respect .. Considering that you live in a house is not for you
Always remember that you choose to live with a family in order to benefit .. either from culture or language or even in order to save!
Or of course it is an excellent option for those who are new to come and specifically who have no one in the alienation.
Because the majority of families will help you understand the country and are ready for all your inquiries
In addition, most families have all the equipment they may need from furniture and many more
So I would say that there is sometimes a tax for living with a family
They do not take your comfort completely
And other things you may not like in the family itself
If you are the kind who has a lot of knowledge in the country of scholarship and wants to stay with them I simply stay with them,
You do not need a family in your case ..
Because in the family it will be difficult for you to invite them permanently.
At the same time if you go out and do not go back to the family home just to sleep ..
That's never meant to be there!
Families tend to host more than one student.
A housing companion is often a foreigner.
Share you strangers ..
Strangeness of the homeland .. and the alienation of stay with people do not associate with them onions
Of course, it will not be from your country.
Because if that is the case, you will lose the advantage of being a family home
It is developing your language more by not speaking your native language at all inside the house!
Companion accommodation is often something you can not control when you live with a family ..
You are lucky to see your friends
Before coming you may only know his name and you may know from which country ..
At other times you do not know anything who will stay with you!
Companion housing is the first "potential" friend you may meet ..
Being a good person will make it much easier for you and adds a lot of fun to your stay
No matter how nice the family is with you, you will never be lenient in terms of paying the rent on time.
Most families' contracts with students stipulate that you pay a certain amount for each day of delay.
I am confident that whatever you respect and trust and believe you are loved by them ..
All families will change their shape exactly from the way they are used when it comes to money
Therefore, you do not ever tolerate, neither on the one hand, nor on the one hand, on the one hand, the silence on any right that you think is your right
It is very nice when you decide to leave the family after your stay
This is not the end of your relationship with the family.
Believe me, your continued knowledge of the family and your visit to them later is a win for you
Because you and your exit you are still maintaining your relationship with a family of the people of the country
A day will come when you will need to take the opinion of people you trust and do not shy away from asking them.
And therefore the family will be a good one, especially that he was between you and live and salt in one day
On good and love we meet