The life of a lover

in amor •  5 years ago 

Everyone in life has gone through this stage of falling in love and it is very nice to feel butterflies in the stomach and feel like the different emotions of the body give us away. What we do not know is that in this stage of falling in love where we find that female or that alpha male who does not melt with a smile and put us to drool and fantasize about having him in our arms for a whole day, and it is very nice to find That person that our heart marks and stands out as the love of our life, we choose and give ourselves body and soul without thinking. To live those emotions, the breaths, the friction of our body, feel how the heart accelerates and overflows trying to be happy, or that moment where the adrenaline that leaves this crazy passionate kiss runs through our venous channels, we think more about it puts the skin sweety ahhh.

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Everything in that first stage of falling in love is very beautiful, everything goes perfect, there are no fights, discuss us, everything is happiness, affections, kisses, passionate nights, outings and it is a dream come true in which everything we want to be and live without waking up , but after a few months is that the second stage comes where nothing fits. And that's where he asks you, What happened to us? Everything was beautiful and beautiful! And now we just fight.

Dear reader friends, what I want with this blog is to explain what the stages of falling in love are, and tell you about my experience and also interact with you in the comments in search of knowing your experience and see if you are going through a difficult time in your relationship in which I can help you with. I would say that in the midst of my experience with the more stable and stable relationship I had, I would say that I have recited the formula of how a lady should be treated and that I have also learned the formula in which a lady should treat her partner. Of course they thought that it was no longer one-sided, there must be an equality so that the relationship is in a perfect equilibrium point. But arrival that day when nothing goes well.

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In my relationship, that moment came where there were only discussions, jealousy, constant confrontation and maintaining a distance relationship is very difficult. There is mistrust, that if he cheats on you, that if he is with another and it is well fucked to be day by day like this, at this stage it is where we mature and the relationship grows, move on to the next stage that is the one where both found the relationship in 3 values ​​that for me are the basis of a love at a distance, which are:

Respect.
Honesty.
Trust.

When he learns to respect, it is where you as a person begin to mature, to give him that affection and appreciation while maintaining that respect that is what you are going to push yourself to not be unfaithful or to think of a different girl with a carnal desire. When you respect that lady oh that gentleman, your gaze is focused on those people and everything you do and live to do for the good of both, thus becoming quite honest and not hiding anything created a unique bond of trust that is not Only the one where you say it with words and you can feel it in the other people with their actions.

So far this delivery comes, sharing a little of my experience, if you go through any doubts or a bad time do not hesitate to comment and leave your like that I will be advising you and giving you the best solution.

Discuss your experience and let's interact, it's always good to learn something new.

Thank you

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