We should appreciate everything thats in our life ....before its existence fades away and leaves one in dismay. Every thing that steps into our life has some value, there is always a reason why it comes into our life and however small its necessity or role in our life is , we should respect its existence ...but most of the time we fail to do so and we identify its importance, only after it has gone away or over...and thats the time when it hurts the heck out of us.
And the year 2020 has been a year of regrets for all of us...we have already witnessed and still are witnessing the global pandemic 'Covid-19' which began with the spread of the corona virus...there have also been devastating earthquakes and locust attacks and what not! and saddest part is that it has cost the lives of million innocent people and the death toll has no ideas to stop and is still rising everyday .5 months are still left for the expiry of this year and we still do not know what other shocking event or phases we have to go through but still praying for the better .
The purpose of writing this article is a bit different ...the only reason behind it is the sudden demise of one of my friends( I cannot take the name)...I turned seventeen this year but ,he, my friend, not even that, he died at the age of 16, we all were curious but then we got to know that he was a bit ill since the last 2 days but yesterday evening his temperatures showed a sudden rise and he was having problems in breathing, at night he was tested and he showed positive results for dengue and very sadly ...passed away at 5.30 a.m. in the morning...I got to know that from a friend who called me up a few hours later. He was a very nice and quite boy unlike many of us who are naughty and always up to some mischief... but he had a few friends and most of the other boys made fun of him ...his nerdiness and fragility...but now upon his demise we saw those same friends putting up their social media stories with a photograph of his and writing huge paras to express sympathy...hypocrites they are!! no body lent an ear to him what he wanted or had to say and now they are mourning...whats the use of all that when u never appreciated his presence when he was alive ? That's the sole reason why i said people identify someone's importance after he/she is gone and no more ...and as we all know ... flatters earn sympathy but at the end of the day these cannot bring him back ...to this people give their alibis saying these are just to express their love....what love ? something which one should have shown when he was alive ? And they suddenly remembered it after his death?...is this showy love of any use ? no ...and we have experienced this and this lesson will be remembered by us throughout our lives ...because we have learned it the hard way..but before other people to experience the same thing I would like them to read this....so that people appreciate things and lives before they are permanently gone away...I was here today just to share my story ...the lesson that I learned the hard way round.. and i hope people spend few minutes reading this and learn how to appreciate.....With love
-Mohul :)