My dear husband,

This is the first time I wrote an "e-letter" for you. Don't be surprise :) I hoped when you read it , you'll feel my love for you.

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Before being with you, I don't believe in fate. For me it is something unrealistic and too dreamy. But then I realized that fate is real.

We come from two different worlds, and completely different circumstances. I am a person of few words, you are talkative. I'm a secretive person, you are open-minded. I like stability in life, you like adventure with life.

The first time after getting married, I think we can not get along. We always have arguments because we want to assert ourselves. But then gradually the life has made us more understand each other and more think about another.

Now I understand more about you. I know how to ignore your bad habits and admire you because......

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.....you are a responsible man with our family

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You don't have a luxury car, don't buy a big castle for me or you have a brilliant career. You are just a normal worker. But you are a hard working man, not afraid of dirty, not afraid of suffering. Because you knew that you were working to support me and our kids.

Your character is there. You are serious about your job because of your responsibility for our family. And despite you get the poor looks from other people , you still face them.

I think a great men are those have responsible and their own ideals. You are great man in my heart. It does not matter what you do, where you are, whether you wear brandy suits, shoes or not.

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.....you know to listen to me

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When people are too familiar with selfish individuals, they themselves gradually become similar. People who just want to express themselves and forget the of others.

But you are different. You are always the man who I can tell stories and thoughts in the most comfortable and excitement. You always tried to listen without showing impatience, annoying when talking to me.

Honestly when I tell you something, I don't want to seek advice. I need your sympathetic, understanding from you. Or at least I want to be hearted.

Being listened to, I always felt that I was relieved of stress, fatigue, tiredness of life.

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....you do good things to others

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You open the door to others as they come in. You hold the stuffs for an old man. Or simply greet everyone as a habit. You do it not because you want to show off or want ingratiate from another, you do it because you want.

You always be willing to give the compliments and thanks when someone is helping you enthusiastically.

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.....love our kid wholeheartedly

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No matter what you are doing, or if you are late for work, you always takes the time to kiss goodbye and hug our daughter.

You and her understood each other so much that I could not understand. You understood why she was annoyed with a wet towel, Or why does she like to arrange the bed in a certain way. While I was squeezing my thoughts all night to understand what she was doing. You immediately understood her without question.

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I thanks life when let me meet you to share the difficulties in the life. If there is after life, I still wish to go along with you.

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^{This entry I wrote for the contest by @raymondspeaks. The purpose is #appreciationformen. If you want to join, check it here}

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Thanks for reading