Do we need to tip EVERYONE?!

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Today, I'm thinking again about one of my biggest pet peeves: TIPPING

I was talking with a friend who just got a tattoo and asked me how much do I TIP the artist. Do you even need to? Hmmm. That's a fair question although the answer, at least in my country, is quite simple: if someone does something for you, you tip. If not, you can do as you like.

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Let's look at some examples:

1. Tattoo artists
I tip based on actual price of the tattoo, discount that I feel I have received - for example one tattoo that I calculated at 250$ came at 150$ so of course, I tip a lot here - quality of work, difficulty of work and weather the artist works for a shop or has his own shop - I tip less when she owns the shop because she keeps most of the tattoo money. Finally, I tip based on how much I like them :)
Sue me,I'm only human!
But if you find a good, reliable and interesting tattoo artist, tipping big can be a bridge to a good relationship.Not mandatory but a way to show appreciation and have priority for future works! That's cool too.

2. Baristas

I do love my carefully brewed flat whites, my exquisite cortados, my just right foam on a caffee latte. All these take a lot of skill, attention to details and experience both with the actual coffee used - that can be very mercurial and change profile by the day - and the hardware.
In the light of all this, the difference between a coffee that changes your day and one that is just "meh" rests on seconds, grams and a few Celsius degrees here and there. I respect all that and always tip my barista.
Also, I go to the same shops every time so knowing that I respect their craft and tip well gives me a lot of bonuses down the line. I think I'm breaking even on tips for coffee to be honest :)

3. Any kind of delivery

While this is something that falls under THE rule of services provided + I do delivery and know how important tips are, I do have on exception. I do not tip big box delivery services like DHL, FedEX. I don't really have a reason for that, but if you come by car to my house, I'll leave a tip only if what I need to pay is not round like 1$ for 99$ order. There is nothing really logical here...but I guess I perceive the effort as low although driving in this traffic is hectic.
What I do try is to always have a water or coke ready in the summer for the delivery guy.
Might need to try to be more mindful and leave a tip here too.

4. Barbers

I mean, this man holds my beard in his hands. I tip before I get on the chair!!
On a serious note, nobody deserves it more. Not tipping a barber is a crime against common sense.

5. Home nurses/babysitters

This is one that I am not sure. Tipping seems to be uncommon because, you are actually employing these people so you've already agreed a price for the service. I heard friends that tip the babysitter though so who knows?

6. Taxi drivers/uber drivers

I never tip uber drivers. I just don't feel the need but I notice you could chose to tip from the app. The problem is that you must chose to tip every driver, and I'd like to tip per-person basis when it comes to uber.
For taxis, in my country, there's really some sort of forced-tipping in action. "Sorry, man, I don't have change!!" when you give 15 for a 12 ride. The bastards! I hate taxi drivers but yeah, tipping happens with them.

7. Sport massage/ masssage/ spa tratments

I have very little experience with this, but I would not tip for a premium service like a spa-day. I guess I feel that they are already well compensated. On the other hand, being treated like a king might entice me to give a little extra. For sport massages or recovery I think it's not necessary as it's mostly a medical service and who tips for that?!

As we can see, tipping is very bizzare thing. There are a lot of articles about the general injustice of the tipping culture and how including tipping in your bill wherever you are is the fairer way. Might be...people use tipping as a note for the service.
"you did good!! 5 stars and 10$"
"You sucked! no money for you!!"
That seems fair to some, deeply unfair for some others.
Also, there's a big difference in what is expected of you. In EasternEurope tipping is expected..in UK, I was an oddity! [But they still took the money so what do you know?!]

You mileage may vary but if you think it's ok to tip, please TIP.
It means a lot.

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It's good to give tips towards a person who had a good service, in this way he will be encourage to do well, better that what he used to.

that's actually not true, it seems that this is our thinking but in practice it seems to be a cruel practice.
I am not sure, I rarely penalize someone with no tip just because they gave "some" bad service. Think about it like that..when you go to work and have an off day, they don't cut your salary that day :)

We don't need to give tips to a non-satisfactory service. It just a matter of appreciation, gratitude for making our day beautiful.

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Hey thanks!

In the states, in the restaurants, tips are basically required and thus aren't really tips anymore, or at least that is my observation.

that's actually not a bad solution....rewarding people for good service and punishing everyone else is kind of mean to me. We all have off days...

Tipping is a new thing to me and I just used it on web, like Reddit cryptocurrencies subs. I think is more a cultural factor, here on Brazil we never tip anyone.

seriously?!
Wow. I thought south america latin countries are very into tipping.

Yep. We do give some change to beggars and street artists, but tips to someone who are paid to do their job we don't.

I could use all of that currency for the kill jar Vera set up for me.

I hate the concept of tipping. It may have started as a way of showing gratitude towards someone who gave you great service, but now it just lets employers get away with free work and customers get left with the bill. Employers should pay their employees not the customers!

bingo

Don't eat yellow snow

That's always a good tip to give!!

:))))))

Great post! Good work, and quality customer service should be rewarded and recognized.

classic!!