The points you listed arent really things to be worried about. Lemme take the much i understand:

1.Yes, there are bad wives out there, but mist women usually give what they get, magnified. Take care of your wife, show her love and you will have a heaven on earth.

2.A woman doesnt determine tour life's fortune. Work hard and be prayerful and you will have success. Be lazy, live a wayward life, and karma goes to wait for you in front.

3.Really??? Is the woman feeding on more than one soup herself? Lol. Marriage is sacrifice. We women also get tired, fed up even of just one soup, but we have taken a vow to be faithful, and that we remain.

4.This is wrong and the woman's family shouldn't expect a struggling man to take up their responsibilities as well. I believe this can be reasonably ironed out.

5.Have nothing to say on this.

6.If you involve God in your marriage, you would have nothing to be afraid of.

7.You hit the nail on the head there. There are no perfect wives or husbands out there. You look for the person you are most compatible and happy with, take the plunge, and daily work towards having the best marriage.