He was bleeding heavily that night. The excruciating pain drove sleep far from his entire apartment. While he battled with his colon as it itched and twist. It was getting to three months of blood flow through a man's anus. Unbearable pain it was and lasted even to December - a month known for festivities and merriment.
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On December 18th, just last year 2017, someone somewhere had given this man my number. And he called. On the 19th, he called more than five times before day break, apologising every time for disturbing me. I told him it was okay.
I naturally understand what it means to be in pains. At at 13 I had had an accident. I fell off a motor cycle whose ridder was on a super high speed on an high way. It happened that he ran into heaps of wastes dropped by those living on the environ awaiting evacuation from Cross River Waste management. It happened in calabar. When the motor cyclists suddenly noticed the heaps, he tried to navigate away but throw me off into unconsciousness.
I didn't know what happened next, but woke on the hospital bed the following day. I saw my white T-shirt shocked with blood - white became red and I broke into uncontrollable tears. Stitches everywhere on my body. It was my first accident experience. By this time, my aunt you sent me on the errand had started looking for me everywhere in town. I was taken to hospital by a stranger, the cyclist had ran away.
I could have died that day on an high way if there was an oncoming vehicle but a stranger saved my life. I know what pain feels like. So when this man who had been bleeding kept calling me, I knew I should be calm and kind with him. He was suffering from pile (hemorrhoid)
Hemorrhoids, also called piles, are vascular structures in the anal canal. In their normal state, they are cushions that help with stool control. They become a disease when swollen or inflamed; The signs and symptoms of hemorrhoids depend on the type present. It could be Internal hemorrhoids often result in painless, bright red rectal bleeding when defecating. And or External hemorrhoids often result in pain and swelling in the area of the anus. If bleeding occurs it is usually darker. This man had external pile. The paid for him was too much to bear. He lived alone with his daughter who had gone for December convention outside the state with no mobile for to make contact.
So I called my mother by morning the following day to get curative treatment for him. My mother is a nurse and also a distributor of Chinese curative health products for #Piles, #stroke, #hypertension, #debates, #asthma, and any health challenges. The products cures completely. I started believing the efficacy of the product when it shrink and dissolve #fibroids #without #surgery. But this man didn't have the money for treatment.
His complains where more than the problem and I couldn't stand it anymore. With my savings, I got some products for him that will at least stop the bleeding and the pains. Two weeks later, he came smiling.
#WHY #DID #I #HAVE #TO #DO #THIS?
I lost my father to the cold hands of death because no one was willing to help. There is no illness or disease that is incurable if there is enough money to tackle it on time.
I was in school preparing for our year 3 second semester examination when my father kept calling. The transportation from my school in a different state to where my dad was wasn't available so I couldn't go. And I had exams the next week. So I resisted. Those he has been helping had no hands to help or withheld help from him. And I don't want to express this deeper cos it sets me into an emotional mood. But I lost him, yes I lost him. Because no one was willing to help. So I feel privileged when I am in a position to help. I do the much I can.
WHY AM I SHARING THIS WITH YOU?
I usually do not like to announce the help I offer to others or what I had done for others as help. I also keep most of my pains inside of me. But as part of the #backtolife-project, an @iconnelly initiative to give support to those @tearsdrop Read About The Contest Here I have joined this contest to share with you how a little help can save a life like a stranger saved my life when I was lying helplessly on an high way in the pool of my blood.. And how negligence to helping can send a person to early grave like how I lost my father. Oh I wish I had the money to take him to wherever I heard there could be help for him. Since I couldn't help then, I promise to help any other person when I am in a position to help because I hate to see people @tearsdrop. I want to see smiling faces all the time.
@diamondrich introduced me to this contest and this is my first contest on steemit. I am passionate about saving lives and I want others to see the need to help others in need. This is the first contest on steemit since my few weeks of joining this community. I want to see our humanity in display and love being shared to others. Let's be the reason for someone's laughter. I love to be the reason why someone found hope to life again.
I see the #backtolife-project as not just any contest, it showcase our love for humanity. It encourages others to show a little kindness every single day. Let your light so shine in and from your little corner. Your own kind of help may not be about health or finance. You could offer a younger person tutorial or training for free. There are young people who want to write exams but do not have money to go for extra moral class. You could be of help too.
#YOU #TOO #CAN #JOIN #THIS #CONTEST
Anyone can join this contest. Click here to Read About The Contest Also support me with your upvote and comments. Together we can make the world a better place to live in.
If everyone has a heart like yours, then the world would surely be a better place.
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Thank you brother. We are here for each other.
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Nice .i know what the pain of pile feels like .just terrible.its really nice what u doing and u chose a great contest to join
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Sorry about your father's demise.. Keep up the good work and God almighty will reward you
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God bless you
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Please resteem the second post of the project only tgen is your entry valid, i love tgis job with real pictures, but resteem first and add #teardrops as one of your tags thanks
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I pray good things to assist ourselves should come our way...
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Nice story, i didnt know you could do this
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May God give you the grace to keep up the good work. Amen
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Goodluck Desmond
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Nice really touched
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wow this is so inspirational...tnx for sharing
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