I have always been annoyed by New Years Resolutions. There is no time like the present. My thought is "why haven't you already done it?". Also, the Resolutions almost never come to fruition.
I know we're all human but you only live one life. If you have something that is not serving you then change it. No one wants the best for you but YOU! I'm not calous, I'm just a realist and I always have been. Hold your head high, make changes, live better and pursue your own happiness.
BR