A way to step into the frequency of unity, of love, is to be in service. Not in service of, but in service – simply in being. Being is service. So, lose yourself in your natural state of service. Anytime you’re being in service in the traditional sense – you’re giving someone a gift or you’re holding space for someone – instead of thinking ‘I’m giving this to somebody else’, lose yourself in service, impersonal, without positioning. Because you’re not being in service to somebody else, you are serving the rest of yourself.
True service, or surrender, or love, is the disappearance of emphasizing the difference between yourself and others.
There is no difference between giving and receiving. Because there is no separation between the giver and the receiver. For the subconscious is the same frequency, the one of sharing. When you give, you are giving to the rest of yourself. What we call others, or the outside world, it is simply the rest of yourself. When you are giving, you are also receiving.
Being in service is a state that is very close in its reflection to the One. It is unity, it is Oneness. Unity is service, unity is sharing, unity is being – without further conceptualizations, just the being of this moment, just being present.
You are always serving the One. Through yourself you are constantly in service to the rest of yourself. There is not a single moment when you’re not serving the rest of yourself in a way or another. You are not serving somebody else, there’s just the One giving to itself, creating opportunities for more and more self awareness, for more and more transcendence, for more and more awakening.
Seeing it like this, there is never an imbalance, it’s always abundance, an abundance of receiving. The act of serving is indivisible, you cannot serve without receiving, so you are never a victim –in the sense of only giving and not receiving -, you are always blessed.
How you feel about yourself determines the quality of the energy that you emanate. The energy that you sending out to the rest of yourself comes from your state of being, comes from how you are defining yourself – what you are believing about yourself, what you are feeling about yourself. How you’re feeling determines the way you see things, the way you are acting in the world, determines what you are attracting to yourself and what you are bringing out in other people. At any given moment you are already completely in service to yourself. Realizing that everything ‘out there’ is the rest of yourself, decide what you would like for yourself, and be the surface of that energy, of that frequency, of that state of being.