Mommy Dearest

Have you ever dealt with a family member or a loved one who often times deems themselves unworthy of that love? For me it is my clinically diagnosed borderline/suicidal/bipolar Mother. How do you truly help somebody that does not want to be treated? A grown woman who tosses items across the room, one whom has gotten his or her way their entire life and acts as sophomoric as a seven year old child.... when pressed hard; what do you do?
You can not help a person who does not want to help themselves. Even if the weight of her issues and her tyrannical behavior is as if a massive weight dragging you, your Father and so many others down deep into the waters of stress, which happens to be the number one killer in humans. All suggestions are open but bare in mind that folks with such disorders can control them. They also carry the great tendency to be able to halt their actions 'stopping on a dime' in front of those of their choosing (i.e. police, mental health professionals, certain friends, etc.). Having battled with my own mental and physical diagnosis of multiple realms I am adroit in such fields. You do have the power to control your actions yet still without consequence the ill fashioned behavior continues. What should I do? Does anybody with knowledge in this field have a clue because I sure don't. My posts on here can be real. Some will even hit home. Follow me on here and let's figure out this thing called life which is only what you make of it.