Did you know that what you say to others has a huge impact on how your relationships with them will go? Have you ever heard that saying, "what you say goes," and wondered what the heck it was talking about? Here is what you need to know about your words and what they mean.
First of all, when we are talking to other people, what we say is actually what affects how our relationships with them go, and this includes not only our own words but also those of the people we are talking to. The way we say things affects us, and how they perceive us, and that means it can have an effect on the way they view us.
As you may have guessed, what we say to people is also a lot more than just what we say to them. We actually use our words in different ways, so that if we did not say something, they would not feel like we were saying something. What we are saying to ourselves, our thoughts, and even the people that we are speaking with is what actually gets them to respond to us. This is why it is so important to always be honest with yourself, and to not let what you say influence who you are.
Now, how do you know how you are going to react to what you hear? Well, that is going to be based on how you think of yourself, and how you see yourself in other people. If you believe that you can be what people want you to be, and you believe that they want you to be the way you are, then you will think in that way, regardless of how it affects the people that you are talking to. If, however, you feel that you are the exact person that people want them to be, and that they just want you to be their friend, then you will believe what you are saying.
What we need to understand here is that we cannot change how we feel about ourselves in any way, but we can change how we say things in a way that is the right way. By thinking in a way that is right, we can begin to accept ourselves, accept the things that we do not like, and the things that we like, and accept others as they are. This is how you begin to build strong relationships with the people that you are involved with.
It is important to remember that just because you think that a way about another person, does not mean that you actually believe it. does not mean that it is true, because it just means that you are projecting that way, and your mind is making you believe that way.
When we say something that affects our relationships, we are actually being honest with ourselves, and others about what we truly feel, and what we really think about ourselves. And by accepting ourselves as we really are, we begin to realize that what we say and the way we say things is true. This can be a great way for us to begin to heal from the inside out.
Also, when we are not careful, we tend to say what we really believe, even when it is not true, and this is the problem with a lot of people. The fact is that when we start to believe what we believe and act on it, we can become the one who is controlling the way we think and the way we act. This can cause problems, and when we are in control of the way we think and the way we act, we begin to think only about the negative things about ourselves and the people we interact with.