Those who take care of us the most while we're young, even though they mean well, might make us lose sight of the infinite that is deep within us. To be loved and cared for, to survive, we sometimes need to forget who we really are.
To release yourself from the weight of your worries that build up inside of you and have an impact on your entire life, you might need to address certain ingrained beliefs.
I've put up a list of activities you can do to connect with your underlying beliefs and release the weight of your worries.
Some ingrained ideas develop when our basic wants are not completely satisfied in infancy, such as "I am not important," "I am not worthy of love," "My needs don't need to be met," and "My needs are a burden to others."
The world is not a safe place. This place is unsafe for me. I am unable to express my needs, ask for assistance, or share my joy or suffering. I might not hear back from you.
Future predictions can arise in our thoughts due to bad messages from the outside world, as well as traces of migrations, disasters, and conflicts that are stored in our cell memory and passed down to us from our ancestors.
This belief, which we form through the borrowed ideas of our early carers, our surroundings, and the culture in which we were raised, leads us to tell ourselves, "Worse things will happen."
To be loved and cared for, we could, nevertheless, also have to lose touch with reality. We perceive detachment and rupture as a result of this consequence.
Feeling cut off from the outside world, the natural world, and the cosmos breeds anxiety, rivalry, and loneliness. Our cosmic umbilical chord is severed, as Pilar Jennings put it, and we start to feel apart from the whole.
Our fundamental worries stem from these hurtful self-perceptions that we developed in our early years of existence. Anxiety starts to fade when we come back to unity consciousness and begin to connect with our genuine selves. What actions then ought to we take in order to accomplish this?
"Everything depends on one's intention," goes Tibetan tradition. Declare your goal: "I want to see the reality that lies beyond my fears."
Renowned writer Michael Singer discusses how the catastrophes we encounter in life are far less often than we realise. Reprogramming your brain to believe that "there is pain and sweetness in life, and anything can happen" would allow you to embrace life's pain and open your heart to experience it, rather than stressing about protecting yourself and avoiding it.
You can challenge the truth of fear when you follow the thinking from the body. You'll discover that the majority of them are fake when you start asking questions.