Are you a good people to get married? Financially speaking.

in blog •  7 years ago 

Wake up early, work hard and get home at night tired and sleep. If you do an extra three hours a day even better. The family will be very proud, will be the example to be followed.

This is how society has learned the definition of good boy, good girl, who is hardworking.


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When a boy or girl starts dating, one of the first questions the family asks is:

What does he / she do in life? Does he / she work?

If the answer is positive, great, then you think you have a future.

But if the answer is, he / she does not have a formal job, he / she makes the money work for him / her. "Older people will distrust, doubt and even say" not a good people. " This mistrust makes a lot of sense, what you really want to know is whether the couple will have a good financial condition. The employee earns money, but whoever "makes money work," people do not understand how that happens.

Ending mistrust

All knows those conversations about money (pay bills, debts ...) that always happen in the homes of the families, be it in your family or in the family of your girlfriend / boyfriend.

Imagine if you say:

Today I won $ 250 without leaving home

It would be rude to talk about how much you have earned, but when it comes to paying for pizza you can talk, let me pay you!

People will also think he / she does not work, how do you have money to pay for pizza?

If people are left with this question only in the thought, that's fine, but if this doubt is not only in the thought, be verbalized, then yes you can not be alone in the imagination, you have to verbalize also Today I won $ 250 without leaving From home.

I believe that only then will people believe that you have a reasonable financial condition by showing you have by paying the bill. Show your Wallet! End the prejudice that was built over many generations, those generations who woke up at dawn to work.

Bloggers on duty must have gone through a similar situation many times.

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