Dreams

in blog •  6 years ago 

Everyone out there is so busy with his/her lifestyle. Some people do not even
bother to know what they are doing and WHY they are? If you have a dream or ambition to achieve/become something and you are searching for some kind of motivation,then bud,this is the right place you have landed. Let’s start.

BUT FIRST,WHO AM I AND..WHY LISTEN TO ME?
Hey people. I am no one special. I am one amongst you only. My name is Ishaan Bhojwani and u know what? I also have a dream. A dream of becoming a successful person(who doesn’t have this?). I am currently studying in grade XI and I also hate Monday mornings ! This is my first blog and I am very much excited and nervous about it. My hobbies include playing football,watching Netflix,singing(alone in the shower),programming,learning languages etc etc. I like to make friends and meet new people. I somewhat think that i am under-confident and shy.

The second answer,”Why listen to me?”: Not ranting but , Probably because you want someone to tell you that,”You can fulfill your dream and conquer your mind.” Right? I might be wrong or might be right but I know one thing that EVERYONE WHO IS READING THIS HAS A DREAM AND WANTS TO FULFILL IT BY KNOWING SOME SHORTCUTS. Wait? What? Can you have shortcuts in life for achieving something big? You guessed it right. NO. But does it mean that you should work hard and not think of working smart? Ugh okay. Lot’s of questions. You should listen to me because I too have a dream.

WHAT ARE DREAMS?
So the main question is,”What are dreams and why should one follow them?”. The answer to this question is simple and you have guessed it right. Dreams are the imaginations and ambitions which group together and make you feel great and happy. Dreams can be of two types:

The ones which are just imaginations (Like you fighting with a dragon in China and you are the master of sword fighting. This is still possible but practically no one want that and China or even the whole world doesn’t have Dinosaurs.)
The ones which can come true practically with hard work and patience.(You being a nice Doctor/Engineer/Lawyer/Judge/businessman/Racer/Singer/Dancer etc etc)
You should follow your dreams because doing what you desire the most feels great and makes your soul happy . Following your dream and becoming the person you wanted to become from childhood(or teenage) is very special. Why so special? Let’s see.

THE RACE OF DONKEYS
Wondering why such a title? You will surely get to know why this after reading this section. So as I said before,”Following your dream is rare and special” is because in day-to-day life, I personally see people running in metros , cars , trains to go to the place of their work. Going to work in the morning and returning tired in the night. I always wonder only one question. WHY DO PEOPLE SEEM TO BE SAD? Or we can say stressed too. Why so? If everyone is following their dream and interest, then why take work as punishment and your workplace as a jail? I got my answer soon. This is because people are not following their dreams. Why so? There are several reasons for this.

It is possible that your dream work cannot make you financially independent which means you will always have to depend on either your family or some other job.
It is also possible that your dream cannot make you and your family gain the required amount of respect and this makes you feel worse. ( Feeling why this is a reason? Will tell soon.) .
One reason can be that ( oh this is a famous reason ) your dream is not so special and the society makes you feel that there is more of success and reputation in different work.You feel that pain? Been in this situation?
But you know what? If it keeps you happy, then GO FOR IT
I call today’s life the Race Of Donkeys because today, no matter what we do , we do not asks ourselves that WHY WE ARE DOING THIS? This scares and makes me question but yes, this is the truth. People are just running and rushing here and there thinking that this is a job/work which will help us make more money but they don’t understand this that money does not solve all money problems (I will surely right about this in my future blogs) .

MAKING YOUR DREAMS WORK ! ( THE PROCEDURE)
Want to know how to make your dreams work? This is the section about this topic. Came till here to know the answer?Don’t worry. I will try to make this the best.

So the main question,”How to make my dreams work?” Well the answer is certain. Let’s break it down into three simple steps. These steps would involve identification , procedure , tips , making sacrifices etc. Let’s go!

IDENTIFICATION: This is the most important step and takes the most time. Identification means identifying your dream and whether you can pursue it as your career or not? Take time. Talk to elders ( Which may support you and tell you it’s disadvantages also at the same time). Think wisely. Think of all the conditions i.e. It has a future, income , interested the most and other vital factors.
PLANNING: After thinking and deciding , you must plan at the best level. In this step, you may take some advice of people who helped you deciding. But beware,during this,you can face with some difficulties which we call “society pressure”. This is a problem in which the people try to make you drop your idea and force you to quit. That is why you need a strong reason to tell to others and yourself.
ACTING: After planning, you have to act. Acting refers to taking and searching of the courses you can take in order to fulfill the dream. Mind these words,”FULFILLING YOUR DREAMS ALSO REQUIRE HARD-WORK.”
Just ignore the negative thoughts , think wisely , act correctly , take the right advises and you will be able to follow your passion. If you liked this blog,share this and subscribe for more incoming blogs. Have a nice day.
Thank You

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