Thank you David for sharing. Thats when life gets tough. When you give so much love to a person and they disappoint you by giving so little back. Its horrible really. Adultery is a wicked thing but people excuse themselves because its "legal" but in the book of the law it is very illegal. All you can do is ask for God to seek justice and never create justice yourself. We have to learn to forgive people so that we can be forgivin. I wouldnt mind getting married either but like you said it would have to be made on Gods term not on our own. Or in other words "mans terms"