No one will know how to empathize and share with someone else when they do not know how to comfort and care for themselves.
We tell ourselves lonely, that we need someone to vote for, that we also want to be loved and give so much love. But we forget the first and most important thing. Have we found ourselves yet?
No one knows how to love someone else when they do not know how to love themselves. These people are not foolish, not accidentally mindless, only they have not learned how to put love in the right place. And so, do not put love in your heart, how can you give love in the heart of others?
No one will know how to empathize and share with someone else when they do not know how to comfort and care for themselves. Do not let your life pile up along the waves, heart sore and sting of stumbling, hastily turn your back on the long short tears, feel your life bored, lose faith in yourself. These people are sinful, and the whole world seems to close the door with them. They wished to find someone's hand out to them to grab, cling a little despair. But they also need to know, when stumbling, even if someone hold out their hands, their feet also need to firmly step forward.
Many people hurriedly whined, complaining about the fate of no one waiting patiently for them, nor did anyone make them feel reassured. They run the trend, other people sad also makes them sad, other people lonely also make them feel lonely. They just enjoy a moment of joy, then sad, fast fear and pity.
Do not ask why no one is brave enough and brave to enter your tedious living world. Which should ask why you still have not stepped out of your shadow? Why do not you get tired of that tedious life and start a new journey: Journey to find warmth and love?
Do not rush to follow what you consider to be lacking. Be laid by the first brick, with your own hands, your soul. With love and courage, with both confidence and desire to live full.
It may not be sooner or later to have a "someone" dedicated to you. But you know, only when you find yourself, you can confidently extend the arms waiting for love from another "someone"!