Don't Just Look Outside, Because It Can Be A Moment Later God Changes His Condition To Be Better
About choosing a partner, do not let you only see the finances, do not let you only prioritize physical condition, then forget to see your heart, morality, responsibility and religion.
Because you will be very lossful in the future if you are supposed to ignore, for example you are concerned about his face rather than thinking about his character.
Moreover, you underestimate and insult his situation because you do not like it, God can improve the situation for the better, so you will look at his life.
Don't Insult Yes, If It Is Not Suitable Then Tell Subtlely and Don't Harm
Therefore, don't insult, even if you don't like him, even if you don't like him, say or reject it in a good way.
If it is indeed not suitable for you, then let it be said in a subtle way and not to hurt, really if you hurt you will also get a reward from God someday.
You May See He Is An Ordinary Person, But Nobody Knew What His Life Is Later
Because people are usually like this, maybe seeing him as an ordinary person, a lot of shortcomings, still in a state of nothing, so it seems he doesn't have a good future.
So that you are as if you are not happy and say badly, even though no one knows how to live later, maybe he has what you want now.
You Can Only Guess How He Is in the Future, But God Is Perfect in Reversing Circumstances
Because you can only guess how he will be in the future, you can only guess what if you live with him while he's nothing.
In fact, Allah is perfect in turning things around, it could be that he who is now seen as mediocre maybe later he will give God a wonderful life.
Don't Underestimate, God Doesn't Like People Who Are Arrogant, So Like Anything You Never Underestimate
Therefore remind your heart, do not underestimate anyone even if you do not put likes to him, verbal control and your heart still wise.
Indeed, Allah does not like those who are arrogant, Allah does not like people who are proud, as if you are more perfect.
Your Life and Strength belongs to God, while you only borrow from God for free
You must always remember, your life and strength belong to God, so even if you are seen by many people as having advantages, still be humble.
You may not feel tall and arbitrarily demean other people, really what you have is only a loan from God.