Afraid of love

Love 20 is the most carefree days of youth. These are the days of carrying each other singing under the milk flowers October, the days waiting for each other under the dormitory door just to say a few sentences, looking at each other to "remember". Or 2 am morning hungry, meeting each other at the sidewalk pavement in the middle of the summer night windy. Age 20, people love each other because of the intense emotions from the heart, from sudden vibrations from the eyes, smile but not care that in addition to love also other things.

Age 20, love makes everything around me become strangely brilliant. Each day hear the warm voice of the person you like over the telephone line, go out to eat, walk the street on sunny days or the rainy days. I always have a person who is always around, saying things honestly and sharing all sadness. Life will be easier when you have a "fulcrum".

Fear of losing oneself, when one finds the one they love, they will accept all of each other's hobbies and interests and fight despite any contradiction in their thinking for their love. Therefore, the original image they have about each other is overshadowed, there will be differences between the person of the present with the person you love in the past.

We all know what is in the present (personal or behavioral) that is the result of the past. Therefore, whenever you evaluate something, you will probably have a tendency to decide in a direction that has happened in the past. The profound effect will always keep your image in mind and this makes you feel more difficult to make decisions in the future. By the image of the past can create conflict with your new situation.

Your family relationship can break down as soon as your loved one shows up and step into your everyday life. Priority will change over time. Sometimes, you justify yourself that your lover does not affect other relationships. The people you have topped your priority list are now down to second place. Your first position is now the one you love. The fight for the first place can be closed, simply the rule of love that you need to trade for every decision you make because it can affect you in the future.

When love appears in your life, it not only goes "alone" but also attaches responsibility, time and space needs to loved ones. Love can become a serious distraction for those who are making the ideal of life, because love and time are often proportional. You can do if you want. After a certain period, your love will be strengthened and strengthened. You will want to spend your free time with your loved one, even if it is time consuming for your goals. However, this is case-by-case. Some others decide not to sleep to invest in both love and work.