The first thing I want you all to understand is that, anytime a nigga has to announce that “he’s taking care of his kids”, chances are that nigga is not taking care of his kids because real men who take care of their kids, these dudes just take care of their kids. I’ve been married to my wife for 13 years now, we have 2 sons. In 13 years of marriage there isn’t a person alive who has ever heard me say “I TAKES CARE OF MY KIDS!” And you know why you’ll never hear me say that, it’s because I’M SUPPOSED TO TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS. They are my damn kids. I chose to create them with my wife. It is expected that I am to take care of my kids and my wife. There are no damn rewards for doing something that I’m supposed to be doing. I don’t get any extra pats on the back for this. At most I’m lucky if my oldest son gives me one of those “GREATEST DAD EVER” coffee mugs for my birthday or Christmas and even if I never get one (I do have one by the way), who cares. I helped to create my kids and as a result me taking care of my kids to the best of my abilities it’s just an automatically assumed responsibility that I’m supposed to be doing as their father. For these dudes who run around saying I TAKES CARE OF MY KIDS, based upon every nigga I know in real life who says that, 99% of them don’t. Sure, they pay some child support or buy the kid some new shoes and then hop on social media looking for likes on Father’s Day, but don’t expect these niggas to take their so-called parenting beyond that level. These niggas often times just want attention for trying to make it seem like they are responsible fathers who are in their kids lives 24/7 so they can use that as an excuse to slide up in some random chicks DMs to see if he can make her his next baby mama.
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