Originally this should be an audio blog for dsound, but since I cannot publish it there due to IPFS issue ( I can't open the downloaded installation file, after gruelling several hours to learn it, it seems complicated for me to understand), I rather put this piece here. I made two version of it, one in Tagalog- my native language and the other one is an English version of it.

> Tagalog Version

Marami ang nagtatanong, paano daw mag move on? Ito ang sagot ko. Ang move on ay tulad ng pagkawala ng isang ngipin or mga ngipin. Sa unang pagkaranas mo nito, nandon ang di mo matanggap, lalo pa kung ito ay permanente na. Ibig sabihin wala ng kapalit. Wala ka ng magagawa pa kung di ang tanggapin ito. Pagtanggap, yan lang ang pangunahing solusyon. Maaring magbago ang araw mo sa pagkawala nito. Maaaring di ka ganahan ngumiti. Maaaring bumaba ang kompiyansa mo sa sarili. At marami pang maaaring mangyari sa pagkawala nito. Pero ang lahat ng ito, ikaw lang ang tanging makakapagdesisyon. Ikaw ang tanging mamimili. Kaya ko ba na wala na ang mga ito o patuloy akong magmumukmok sa pagkawala nito? Ikaw, ikaw lang ang makakatulong para makaabante ka. Kung tanggap mo ang pagkawala nya, kakayanin mong ngumiti kahit masakit ang pagkawala, kakayanin mong maging masaya kahit pa na wala na sya. At higit sa lahat, kung tanggap mo talaga ang pagkawala nya, maaari kang magpatuloy kahit wala na sya o dili naman kaya'y, gaya ng pagkawala ng ngipin o mga ngipin, maaari kang humanap ng pansamantalang bagay na tatapal sa nabanteng espasyo iniwan nito. Magpatuloy lang, kahit wala na.

> English Version

Many are asking, how to move on? This is my answer. Moving on is just like loosing a tooth or teeth. The time you experienced it, it seems like you can’t endure it, especially if the lost is permanent. That means that nothing can substitute it. There’s nothing you can do but to accept it. Acceptance, that is the key solution. Loosing it, may change your day. It might be hard to smile again. Your self confidence might become low. And there’s more that can happen due to its lost. But all of these, it is you alone who can decide. You alone can choose. Whether you can bear the lost or will continue stamping off the loss. It is you, yes only you, can help yourself to move on. If you accepted its lost, you will try to smile even the lost is hard, you will try to be happy even without it. And most of all, if you really accepted its lost, you can decide to continue living, otherwise, just like loosing a tooth or teeth, you can find a temporary thing that can fill the missing gap or space that it left behind. Just move on, even if it is already gone.

Thank you for reading! The inspiration of this post is the lost teeth I recently have for two consecutive days.At first I want to put my own photo but I changed my mind I'll just leave that to your imagination. hahaha
Thanks to Shutterstock for free photo
@puroypoi March 7, 2018