Love and happiness should not be put in the hands of others

in blog •  6 years ago 

The story of love is inherently complex because the heart and mind sometimes go in the opposite direction. But no matter what, your love and your happiness, do not put your hands on others. Or the decision maker, you?

"Clouds of the sky keep the wind rolling"

People want to break up, should not pull?

There are many people who advise you not to cling to a person who wants to leave, but someone will tell you to be brave enough to hold on to your own happiness. Each person is a way of thinking and hence will give you different advice. Please respect the advice and the people because they really care about you.

But there is an undeniable fact that people are not you, people do not experience that love so absolutely can not understand every opportunity to give the most appropriate advice. The only person you should listen to is to make that final decision yourself.

When the other person says goodbye, you have a thousand reasons for sadness, to want that person to stay with you, so that love does not break in front of you. But let's look at the reasons that are because of you or the other person, if most of the reason you want to hold the other person is because of you then please ... Let people go if the reason is because the other please hold him back ...

To drag people for me

Farewell to that person, you sad and anxious for the next few days alone lovers? No one will take you to the movies every weekend, no one will take you for a walk, go to play as well as you are sick, there will be no buyer porridge to visit you, angry there is no place to vent?

Also, you worry about not being able to love anyone more or more tragic will no one keep an eye on you anymore then "e". These are a lot of reasons but in general they are the same in a "you are worrying for yourself" point. If you do not want to let go of that kind of reason then please ... let people go.

He is unhappy in this relationship because you do not love people, you just love yourself. All you want to do is just to make you happy, even what you do for him is just for you.

Look back on the past, you see that right? You want people to be like this, to make sure that you are happy you are happy you are angry you hurt people. This is not what love is attached to the suffering of suffering people. Give back the freedom of a soul, he deserves a fuller love with a new lover who cares and shares with him. And you, you will soon find a friend who wants to bring him happy.

"Clouds of the sky keep the wind rolling"

Hold on for his happiness

You really love when you care about him more than yourself. Just find that person happy and happy, just enough. You do not ask that person to do this just to make yourself satisfied. Even when he wants to break up, you even hide his tears and let go of his hand to make him happier, find someone better than you to love. But you ... no one will love him more than you and no one can make him happy with you.

If you really love, hold on to that hand. Although difficult, but try once with all your heart with love. Even if it fails, it is filled with the heart of your heart. Be sincere to the person who sees your feelings, that you really love and always try to let him be happy. If he really loves you, you will have another chance to love him. If not, then you understand that it's time to let go of your .... He does not love you nor deserves your love. Save it for a more worthy person. Peace of mind, he will definitely come!

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