When I was a child, I accidentally broke a vase or a tea cup. When I found that I had caused great disaster, I covered my eyes with both hands and didn't want to see those broken things. In school, if I didn't do well in the exam, I would hide the test paper and even deceive my parents. But if I encountered difficulties or any trouble, I would choose to sleep, and then sleep over and wake up, All the problems will be solved.
However, in the face of difficulties, can we escape? I can't. When an ostrich meets a lion, it will have an instinctive reaction, but once it is chased and can no longer get rid of it, it will bury its head in the sand, and the outcome can be imagined. In fact, the ostrich can fly at a speed of 70-80 kilometers per hour (faster when running away), while a male lion can reach 80 kilometers per hour, while the ostrich can run 30 minutes to 70 kilometers per hour.
The ostrich has a pair of powerful, sharp front claws that can kill a lion when needed. But the ostrich forgets its own advantages and chooses to run away and die. How do you feel about it? In fact, the problem you want to avoid is not as complex as you think. On our way forward, we need to overcome it with wisdom. Only by overcoming it can we gain strength.
Don't be afraid of the difficulties you face. You should believe that adversity is given to you by God. This is a gift that must be carefully considered. You can't complain that God is playing tricks on you. Someone once conducted an experiment, dividing a hundred people into two groups A and B. the people in group a live in a comfortable environment. They can play golf, take a cart and play bridge.
Eating western food, in a word, all their needs and wishes can be met. The people in group B are at a loss. Six months later, group A was drowsy and tired, while group B was refreshed and put forward many new ideas. As the saying goes: survival of the fittest. Adversity is just a barrier. Whether you can survive in this world depends on yourself. If you can survive adversity, you will become a strong man who survives in a cruel environment and has great power.
Therefore, in adversity, there will be a watershed. Some people will become excellent because of success, while others will be eliminated because of failure. Life itself is a spiral upward process. Life has ups and downs, but I think the overall trend is a straight line. Difficulties and low tide are just an indispensable part of life and work. It can be said that in adversity, you will grow faster.
Difficulties are often shown in front of different people. They often bully the small with the big, bully the small with the big, and win with the weak. Therefore, in the face of difficulties, it is very important to use what mentality and methods, and whether we can draw strength from God's gift. Escape is a state of mind that cannot face the reality and is blindly optimistic. Its direct result is that many people fail to seize the opportunity, and the maturity and development of body and spirit are greatly hindered, and finally abandoned and eliminated by the times.
Many people encounter problems, unpleasant things and environmental changes. They will be like an ostrich, bury their heads in the sand and ignore them. But now? Difficulties, setbacks, disappointments and the environment will not change due to your escape, but will become worse and more uncontrollable. Because once your escape becomes a habit, negative forces will take root in your heart.
Optimism is a good habit, but excessive optimism or blind optimism that ignores problems is the root cause of failure. We should not only be positive, but also dare to face difficulties. When you are in trouble, think about it. When the worst thing happens, you have to face it bravely. If you don't do it, it will only make things worse.
Therefore, when you encounter difficulties, don't think about running away. First of all, we should understand the problem, how the problem occurs, and whether we can find countermeasures. In any case, she must tell herself that escape is not the best choice, and she will face the problem sooner or later. Many mental health experts agree that mentally sound people can use their "problem-solving" attitude and action to meet challenges, rather than avoid and complain because of difficulties.
Some people often encounter non-stop things, which are usually caused by their subjective consciousness, and avoidance is their primary response. Only by being good to yourself, accepting yourself, overcoming your shortcomings and avoiding your mentality can you get a better life.
When you encounter difficulties or depression, don't try to escape. As long as you can face it bravely, you will understand that the original problem is so simple. Although you can temporarily free yourself from pressure and responsibility, this is not the ultimate way. You need to learn to face it bravely and gain courage and confidence.