Consider This A Goodbye

in breast •  7 years ago  (edited)

Hello ladies and gentlemen--and to be politically correct, trannies too. Most of you probably don't give a shit, but as I know that about 30-40 of my 1130 followers actually do follow me for my content, I felt an explanation is owed to them.

So why am I fucking off? To put it simply, I no longer consider my time on this platform to be enjoyable, nor productive. I do have a lot of gratitude towards Dan and Ned for what Steemit was able to do for me. If it was not for Steemit, I highly doubt I would have discovered my passion for writing, which is why I will always appreciate having come across this platform during my journey through life.

I also know exactly what I want to do thanks to this place. I have worked a ton of jobs in my life, and in spite of typically being very efficient at whatever I do, I have never had one that lasted long. I either end up getting fired for poor timekeeping, shitty attendance, or for not quietly allowing someone to talk to me like I am a piece of shit.

Some people, including my own family, have interpreted this as me being a lazy cunt who doesn't show respect to those I ought to, but they are wrong. I simply don't enjoy working to make other people rich, as I feel like a little slave-bitch. This is also why I have never allowed someone who believes they have power over me to speak down to me.

So yes. Creating content, making people laugh and think, and getting paid for it, sounds like something I can quite happily deal with. In fact, it sounds fucking ideal. However, at the moment, this is not what Steemit has to offer me.

There's not much I want in terms of material possessions, and so I can live on quite modest means. I am 100% certain that I could make a living from Steemit, but that living could not be achieved through simply creating content.

It has been recommended to me far too often, that if I want to make more money on here, I should go and make an effort to read and comment on this and that so others will come and do the same for me. I loathe to hear the suggestion.

I don't want people to read my shit because I read theirs, and I don't want people to vote for my content because I voted for theirs. Nor do I ever have any desire to read anything I would have otherwise not read just so that some cunt will pay me in either attention or upvotes.

I want to be rewarded for creating content that people enjoy or find useful. I am simply unwilling to play all the other games of deception here. So until Steemit is about rewarding content and not trading upvotes through mostly disingenuous niceties, there is no place for me here. I will never be able to succeed here without betraying my morals, and things would have to get a lot fucking worse for me before I'm ever willing to do that again.

So no, this is not about a lack of faith in the platform. In spite of my Mass-Steemicide post, I have come to believe that Steem will play a large role in the world of tomorrow. But that role doesn't look like it's going to be a good one to me anymore. This really could have been something.

It could have been a demonstration to the world on how to succeed together, instead of on the backs of your brothers and sisters. It could have been an escape for all the fuckers out there working jobs they hate in order to survive on the very lands they were born. It could have been an opportunity for all of us to discover and cultivate the passions that are lost to us through the distractions of life, and the reward aspect would have provided people with the time to do that by negating their need to work 40+ hours a week.

Instead, all we have now is a machine that cultivates deception. So many people on here are learning, day by day, minute by minute, how to better pretend to give a shit. How to better pretend to be people's friends so they can profit from the relationship, and how to better look out for yourself while ignoring the plights of others.

The behaviour of people who spend too much time on here is effected, and they gradually become more self-serving. Some will disagree there, and say it's the opposite, but I would refer you back to the many suggestions I have been given to go and comment on other people's posts to raise awareness of your blog or get comments and votes. That is self-serving, but people are just getting too good at convincing themselves otherwise, or making excuses for why it's okay to be dishonest in this context.

This is why I am leaving Steemit. I don't know where I am going to go to create content just yet. Perhaps YouTube. It's all about money but at least they're fucking honest about it. But, to those who care, I will post on here to explain where you can find my content once I have figured that part out.

I think that's it. Don't let this place eat your fucking soul, people.

Also- I know I have some of you to send funds to. I will do it later or tomorrow.

Goodbye for now, fuckers.

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The reason I comment on your posts is mainly because you are sharing important philosophical truths here, and I don't get much chance to share thoughts with people who can articulate similar things that I think about, topics that are nearly forbidden elsewhere. Anyway I never worried much if you necessarily read any of my posts or upvote anything, I was just happy to hear a strong voice talking about things that I think should be said so strongly. The communications that we've had in the comments did help me to remember to check your page for new stuff, but I'd rather not go deliberately looking for people to befriend in hopes that they'll drop by. I still hope that people do drop by though, and naturally the rewards are important, so I keep it simple; I made a list of authors who I want to support, who's stuff I like, and who I enjoy occasionally chatting with, and I visit their pages regularly. It's not even a huge list, because I want to have time to enjoy the content individually. It's something that I can do without feeling like a beggar.
Take care then, maybe you'll wander back through someday soon.

No. You have supported me plenty. I realise now reading through these comments that I have made the post sound like it is completely about money, which isn't true. As I said, I am pretty sure I could make enough money on here if I approached things from a different mindset. I just don't want to do that. But a major thing for me was just to know that people were bothering to read the shit I was spending so much of my time writing, and you were one of the few who did, so I thank you very much for that.

The thing is, I am sure you have noticed by now that I have a message I am trying to get out there into the world. I don't know why I feel compelled to do this, but I know it is something that I must do. I am finding that here on Steemit. my message is reaching only those who don't need to it because they understand what I do, such as yourself. Or, people who just don't care to hear it. I realise a lot of this problem is due to my writing. I can come across as arrogant, harsh or condescending when I type, and that really effects the likelihood of the reader absorbing any ideas I have shared.

I started here as Son of Satire. It was always my intention to share truth, make people think, and do so in a funny way-- as I know that is what people best respond to. I have tried to do this very thing with @eddard and @the-oracool too. Always the same goal, yet different approaches, as I have been trying to figure out what would work the best.

Well, I think that posting on here is not only less enjoyable for me now because of all the greed and disingenuity, but I have also realised how unproductive it is for promoting my message. If I had put the same amount of work ethic into creating YouTube content, I would probably have 30,000 subscribers by now, even if I would have earned nothing in terms of monetary rewards in the process.

So yeah, I know what I am going to do now. For money, I am not entirely sure yet, but I always figure that out so I am not too worried. But for the message, I have a large-scale project in the works that, if successful, will be able to reach far more viewers than I am able to on here.

I do appreciate you reading my so many of my posts, and for sharing your wisdom in the comments section of so many of them. But it's time for me to create content for the cunts out there who need it. You don't, mate.

I think that when we accumulate knowledge that we have a kind of obligation to share that information-- I feel a similar need to inform and share the knowledge that I have, and also sometimes wonder if I am really getting it out there. If nothing else I get to practice here, and the blockchain makes a good place to store all of my writings and art while I slowly work to help make the world better. I'm about to the point where I'm going to start repeating myself here, at the risk of preaching to the choir, since I've covered just about every topic that I'm familiar with enough to write about without references, but my goal is always to improve the world with words, and if there is a bit of reward for that, then it helps, but without the rewards I would find another way to get it out there.

I frequently give people the advice to check out other people's blogs and add quality comments as a way to get more followers. It isn't about 'follow for follow' or any crap like that. It is about making connections with people in the community and getting noticed.

There are thousands of posts created each day. How many people are going to spend the time to dig through all of them and find stuff that is actually good / interesting to them? If you are expecting tons of people to come across your content just because it is good, the majority of the time you will be disappointed.

There are disingenuous people here, and they show themselves in all kinds of forms. Commenting on stuff just to get more attention is one of the many things they do. For the most part, I think that many users can tell the difference between people that are genuinely interested in their stuff vs. people that are just coming at it from a selfish perspective.

It is to bad that you interpret having to be interested in other people's blogs as a requirement to sell your soul. To me it just always seemed like a natural way to network + show that you are interested in other people besides yourself.

@timcliff Being here less than a month, I still understand the frustration of @son-of-satire I cannot say that I would express things in crude terms, as there comes the point in time to rise above the garbage. None of that diminishes from the issues at hand.

With the preface out of the way, I highly appreciate your comment. I already have experienced more genuine networking here on Steemit in just over three weeks than five years on LinkedIn. I am especially grateful for an individual with whom I have been engaging in direct chat who has lent her expertise at my request. Also, I get to communicate directly with a Homesteaders Community. There has also been wonderful dialogue with various individuals. No one is responsible for following me or to even upvote my comments and blog posts. It is my responsibility to make myself and my writings irresistible, so folks do not want to miss out on more.

I came here because I wanted a superior social media and I got it. The cryptocurrency is a bonus. Are the majority of folks sociopaths? Of course, they are. Can I change this fact? Only a fool would attempt. Blinders are not just for horses anymore.

Would have to agree with you about LinkedIn! Seems like the biggest waste of potential ever.

Hugely interested in homesteading and off da grid--followed! My ancestor way back founded a town in the run of Oklahoma, after his previous generations lived as wandering itinerant farmers in the south, so it must be in my blood. I'm currently living as an RV Nomad, trying to help others do the same.

@witnezme I did not realize that one of the members set up this link on another portion until just now. So, this should allow you to join. https://join.slack.com/t/steemithomesteaders/shared_invite/MjE0NTcyMDc3OTg5LTE1MDA0MDM4MTgtMDdkZDMwYTBmOQ

I really should have made a video instead, because yet again, I am misunderstood. I am not frustrated, and I certainly didn't mean to be crude. I just don't discriminate against language the way most people do. But, if I was upset, I don't think I would have opened with a joke and used "breast" as a tag for a bit of randomness lol.

This isn't about me being pissed off and rage quitting the platform. It's simply about me trying to spend my time more productively.

I came here because I wanted a superior social media and I got it. The cryptocurrency is a bonus. Are the majority of folks sociopaths? Of course, they are. Can I change this fact? Only a fool would attempt. Blinders are not just for horses anymore.

One day, not too long from now, you will see the irony in this that I can. Until then, I hope you're able to enjoy your time here as much as I enjoyed most of mine.

Yes, this, thank you Tim.
I am one of the people he's talking about in this post. I love him dearly, but on this point I can't seem to come across to him without seeming like I'm telling him to beg for votes, though that's not at all what I'm telling him to do. Just to comment on people and posts he likes, and it reminds them to take a look at him--that happens to me all the time. Someone will comment on my post and it's like "Oh yeah! You, I like you and what you have to say!" And so I go to their page and read and vote, but because I truly do enjoy them and I've just lost track of them for a time.

I hope at some point he can see this differently. I really do adore this man, and he knows it. And he's depriving people of his amazing thoughts (usually he has amazing thoughts lol)

I did not mean to offend. I have told you before that I don't like this way of doing things. I don't think I will be able to see it differently, but I won't be depriving the world of my thoughts. As I said, I will be continuing to create content, and hopefully, reaching a larger audience in due time.

You kind of brought up something in my mind. I think one of the problems here is how new content gets prioritized so quickly and old stuff gets almost entirely ignored. Also there's nice way to filter our feed or make lists of favorites without doing it manually. This makes supporting people you like a bit unnaturally sometimes.

Exactly! After all it is social media.

Same sentiment basically.

After reading his post, I have to ask myself, am I commenting now on your comment to try and gain a new follower? There might be a little bit of that, but so what if I am? I can say honestly that it doesn't make much difference to me if I don't gain a follower and that it's not my main intention for commenting. I'm not pretending to be someone I'm not, and I'm not wasting my time on someone who I have nothing in common with, i mostly comment on comments as posts that I am impressed by or where I have something to offer. There's bullshit everywhere, we have to look beyond it when there is substance to be found.

I can understand his decision to leave, I just hope he's really exhausted the possibilities and tried looking at steemit from a different angle cause I just found him today and he seems like the kind of person I want to meet here.

He did do a more recent post where he stated that he decided to stick around in some form.

I saw that, it I still felt a kind of resignation from steemit, if only emotional resignation.

#breast

That's a very interesting way to look at it. In fact, it makes me wonder if perhaps I am not interested in anyone other than myself, because I lost the desire to go looking for good content on here quite some time ago. It's somewhat paradoxical though, because the reason I want to create content is to help others, so clearly I do care about people other than myself. But, I suppose I am becoming more of a creator and less of a consumer, and so there isn't much of a place for me here anymore if reading shit you don't want to read is required.

I get what you are saying. I wouldn't say it is required, but if you are going to be a content producer (only) it is on you to find some way to drive traffic to your blog. Posting content (even if it is good) and just waiting for people to come to you doesn't cut it (in 99% of the cases at least). It isn't really specific to Steemit either. If you created your own website, whether it be a blog, or some other site that people would use for some purpose - the website will just sit there with pretty much zero traffic unless you can find some way to drive people there. On Steemit, there is the benefit of already having a large number of users using the platform. The challenge is how do you get them to notice your stuff? Seeing as it is a social platform, being social is generally the recommended approach. It is not the only way, but if it doesn't work for you to go that route, then it is on you to find some other way to accomplish the goal of getting people to notice you.

I understand all of this. I have made my efforts, and now I am moving on. I wasn't complaining or in a bad mood. I was only explaining to the people who follow me actively. There's no need for all of this, but I thank you for the effort.

Ok, take care.

But I just found you! Albeit it was because you created a banner for another user and I was interested in commissioning you to make one for me. =)

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Hahaha this is what lead me here too and now i'm like NOOOOO!

If it makes you feel any better, I would have said no. I am all for generosity, but too many people ask now and it's just getting ridiculous. There is a generic one that you can download for free anyway, so there's nothing missing other than a name. I hope that will be good enough for you/

Much appreciated for the reply! If you get this message...

You'll be back. They always come back. Muahahahah!

Apparently you were right. Here I am.. Albeit, just to respond to messages. But nevertheless you are correct. Have an upvote you wise and crazy oracle.

To believe in something, and not to live it, is dishonest.

- Mahatma Gandhi

A wise old quote.

Welcome to the 21 century of self-fulfilling egos, you have to take time for yourself and cool-off when the negatives get so much. It's not so much about content here but networking, networking and marketing yourself... there is tons of awesome content there but those who are well connected would continue to get big payout...all the best in your endeavors, I myself giving this Steemit some serious thought and how long I would continue here, its quite clear it ins't about content

I don't need to cool off at all, mate. I was in a really great mood when I wrote this post, and I still am.

But yes, it is about networking. Only I don't believe it is about marketing yourself, but rather, marketing the parts of yourself (genuine or otherwise) that you feel will be beneficial to your Steemit career. I know this is something that happens on all social media, but the interconnectivity between this and the prospect of earning money has, in my opinion, created a particularly unique type of ugliness.

It certainly is, I consider my posts great and informative, I see folks post the same thing hours later an get 10X the amount of upvotes, so its all about developing your own community that can support you, having a couple whales as friends would help...it certainly hasn't reach the point where all can successful write and create a career here for themselves unless they are actively engaged with a few members with significant SP, probably this is a reflection of the society we live in, some would get ahead because of who they know and who supports them or what they can invest and an get ahead

I'm so sorry to see you go. Thanks for all the hours of wonderful entertainment. You'll be sorely missed.

I am sorry to leave you. You seem to be my biggest fan. Lol. I went to your blog and thought I was on my own one. This post was really for you and a few others, as I know you have been following my fiction. I have certainly not given up on my works, and I will creating a dedicated website where I will releasing chapters of BOO for free, so when that is up and running, I will share it with you.

Thank you so much for your continued attention. If it was not for you, I am sure I would have thought I was wasting my time with a lot of my fiction writing.

Ha ha ha, You know how careful you have to be with those number 1 fans!
You've certainly created some of the most original and interesting content I've read ina long time. I'd be delighted with the opportunity to read more.
Best of luck with everything.

I very sorry to read you plan to leave, or are leaving (past the plan already I suppose). While recently it is getting harder and harder to get rewards on our posts, you can also see this as a phase. Since I started at Steemit January this year, I've seen many rough times for myself. Low Steem, no attention, no followers, suddenly a peak in attention and then rock bottom attention due to the new balance on our platform. Indeed, may followers but hardly any voters amongst them. And I have my ups and downs, and I started to adopt to not attend to Steemit for a couple of days or even week when I get to my down. But I still think, persistence it the name of the game, and although also I do not get a lot of rewards, well it is level of a tip would say, I still try to continue since I still think it'll become better at one point in time, maybe when we get community features (whenever that is). Anyway, I hope you will reconsider, or after some time of from Steemit, we will see you back here; in one or two weeks perhaps? :)

I'm not leaving because I can't make enough money. I can if I just decide to play the game the same way as most. I am leaving because I am starting to run out of money, and if I do not leave, I will end up acting in a way I do not want to in order to make more of it. Plus there are a number of other things I did not touch on, but in essence, I know that if I stay here I will become a shitter person.

I have reconsidered many times already, and I don't plan to again until the situation is vastly different.

Thanks for the words though. And I hope that you get what you want from this platform. I already got what I needed.

Without you going into the other topics, I can imagine at least some of them what they are. I try to not watch it, sometimes even fight it which I do recently. But continue with the stuff I like to publish. I actually think this social experience will show that something with good intentions by those who did not create the network at day one (they have a different agenda, I'm pretty sure) will become a bot network with some humans left who only take care of themselves. So nice experiment, but with a failed mark at some point in time. I wish you all the best with your new projects.

I'm getting to learn some very interesting people with which I can do business outside Steemit, my main purpose of being here with Steemit. I get sucked in a bit more than I wanted, but whatever I do here, is also to test things, like my second account that I dedicate to sharing quality music. I love to do that, although it doesnt bring rewards. But who knows, maybe in a couple of months time, it is more appreciated. I give it some time, 5 to 6 months. When it didn't work, I learned from it at least.

It will suck to see you go, but as you said, life will go on.

@seablue made a great point, the rest of the Internet does suck. However, you always seemed like a man with conviction and I suspect that you're unlikely to come back once you close out of your holdings here.

I'm interested in hearing where you go in your life after Steemit. Good luck.

The rest of the world sucks. Lol. But, it is equally beautiful too. Steemit just encourages an aspect of humanity that I don't want to see reemerging in myself, and if I stick around, I will be forced to act in this way in order to make ends meet. So, I will earn in ways that allow me to be honest to myself and to others.

I thank you for your words, and I will let you know where I end up.

I can't vote this post up, because I want to boo it. So fortunately I was able to find one comment you made in here that didn't make me want to scream or cry or both and give you my vote on it instead.

Flag it then. Lol. It's your power.

Use my flag because I disagree with something? Don't be an arse.
Although considering what you wrote in this letter, asking you not to be an arse might be a tall order right now..
love you, lol

Fucks sake cunty baws. Does that mean you won't be at the first Scottish meet up then? Not that there is one planned or anything but I had always hoped.

I have heard the phrase "cunty balls" before, but this is the first time I have seen it written down. I never realised how much of an oxymoron it was until now. I like it more! lol.

Also..

Fuck no. I will be there. I don't drink but I will bring some crack for us! lol.

Hehe, it's a brilliant oxymoron. Always loved it for that.

Good to hear, I'll bring a pipe! ;0)

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Sorry to hear you are fucking off.

I read and enjoy your posts, but I get what you mean about not being into all the bullshit.

Something I've never said before is that I think your avatar is the coolest one on Steemit.

There is lots of cool stuff here and there is also utter crap too. But we can choose most of what we see. Over 90 of the posts are appalling, and Steemit is full of spammers, scammers, and even pedophiles.

But on the other hand, some of the content is brilliant. In the past few days I've seen a post this good:

https://steemit.com/conspiracy/@jockey/everything-we-have-been-told-is-a-lie-let-me-liberate-you-my-steemit-family

And a post this bad:

https://steemit.com/life/@ravenrillay/hello-all-steemit-let-me-introduce-myself
But Youtub???? - fuck those cunts!

The first post is good, but like much of the content I enjoy on here, it is just shit I already know written from a different and often biased perspective. Timcliff might be onto something and perhaps I am just selfabsorbed, because I genuinely have no interest in reading about anything I already know anymore. There is too much I still don't know to waste time revisiting the shit I do again and again.

And lol.. Yes that is my definition of a shit post too. Only this one at least has comedy value. Didn't even take the time to go and download a handwriting font for the fake sign. That's just lazy. Lol. But, there will continue to be posts like that on Steemit as long as men on here continue to be pathetic and upvote every bit of cleavage they see, which happens a fucking lot.

I have seen absolutely no pedophilia on here, and I was even recommending this platforrm as an alright place for kids to my sister, compared to other social media platforms. How long has that shit been going on??

It's not hardcore and I suspect it's being set up for a future false flag - but here is a post about it - https://steemit.com/steemit/@titusfrost/steemit-pedophile-ring-exposed

I have similar feeling about stuff I already now - for example I learned about vaccinations in the 90's, and the basics of 911 were obvious within a month, but sometimes it's all like watching paint dry...

No need to leave. Produce content you want and believe in and post it here as well as other places. No games needed. I create blogs to reach people, have conversations, and discuss topics I am interested in. I don't view Steemit as a win/loss game, or any game at all. I see it as a platform and podium to reach and interact with people.

Well, best of luck whichever you decide and wherever you land.

You do have a point. I know I can't make a living from posting on here without also playing the networking and reciprocation games, but I could certainly continue to supplement my income by posting my thoughts every now and again. Thanks for the great advice.

I think you might have forgotten how ugly the rest of the internet is.

Anyway, have fun. Take a break. I suspect you will find it harder to stay away than you think.

I must have explained this poorly. I am leaving because the only way for me to succeed here is to exhibit the same ugliness that I have observed in others. And I cannot do this. I know there's plenty ugliness elsewhere on the net, but perhaps I will have a chance at succeeding through being myself. I don't think that's currently an option here.

I won't find it difficult to stay away at all. But sure, if this STEEM pump goes up to something ridiculous and the payouts become huge, it will be very difficult for me not to try and put a few posts up. I do have financial responsibilities and a dog to feed after all.

But where as most of my time was going towards Steemit since I joined, it no longer will be. So please don't be expecting me to turn up in a week saying I changed my mind. This was not even close to being a spontaneous or under-contemplated decision.

I think your explanation was clear. I just don't see it as a rational decision. It isn't necessary to explain yourself.

Lol. If you do not understand the reasoning behind this, then the explanation was clearly unclear to you.

A lack of logic is certainly not the case here though, at least on my part.

You will be missed, fucker.

Lol. I am pretty missable to be fair..

I was just about to give you an upvote but then noticed you had upvoted yourself. Can you explain your logic to me? Why upvote your comment for 0.0001 cent while deterring upvotes from people like me, who could have actually gave 15 or 20 cents, or more. If you think that one day STEEM will be worth 5000 and your 0.0001 cent will then be worth a dollar, then perhaps that makes sense. But, the 15 cents you would have got from me if you did not upvote your comment, would then be worth like 150000. So you are really hurting yourself by upvoting your own comment with such little power.

Hi there, why such a hurry in leaving but before that why you send funds again? You don't need to do that and you are not obliged too, you already did the time you drop by and give your support and sympathy in my page and u may believed it or not it's really coming from my heart. And please do not think that because of somebody or someone shows u friendship they will take advantage in you. I know you told me once but in being here I do find someone who I can laugh with and make jokes to them by just going.in their post and commenting I don't even vote for others just like them to me too,I was just going there to say hi and leave funny replies so are them too but the thoughts and ideas in here is that we have found and engaged to them, talking to them and have understanding with each other. I don't even have time to go with those who follow me or whom I followed I just keep on posting content which I do ever since I joined steem. I don't care about getting up vote or high rewards as long as they comments if they like. Some are few who votes but don't comment but what I like to see is their comments especially to those new ones who notices me, like you! I hope what decision you made will give you happiness and grace. You are one of those who create good content and good steemians as well. I hope you change your mind and stay. Don't mind those people you don't like, you have your choice either to join them or to stay the way your and stand for what you think is right by continuing what you have started and never give peace of mind with those whom u think is a thrashed, you don't need too. I guess you knew then who are those genuinely looking up on you and u can determined their truthfulness in you. What can I say but to say thank you for everything you share. Good luck and God bless on your next journey.

I'm not in a hurry, I have been thinking about this for a while. Also, I was happy to give you the money because I don't feel comfortable earning a profit in that way, so always knew from the moment I noticed my comments had been getting so many upvotes, that I would donate that money to you.

Thank you for the kind words.

I'm relief knowing u won't go that hurry :) u knew and many others know that u are one of those who also contributed to the community that's why you have many followers maybe not all of them U.V but they did followed and giving you comments in their own perspective. Deep inside u know u have found some good and genuine people or friends in your circle and u can't leave them and say goodbye that easy without feeling sad and.lonely. you been here for a while now and you are happy in here I guess. it's just sometimes we don't expect things to be smooth as we expect and it is not a way of a brave one to runaway instead to face what it needed to be. And you are one of the brave I have known for a short period of time by just reading your recent post and by our conversation. I'm truly glad you'll stay for a while and hope for good and continue what you have started and leave those you don't need to waste time then and I hope I'm not included hahaha! Steem on, and go steem. God bless you and your family too and have a good weekend @son-of-satire

Thank u for being so kind and thoughtful u are a blessed.

I'm a nobody here, but my impression of you has been that you always do what you feel is right, regardless of the consequences.

You've got my respect for that.

I understand your concern about what you'll become if you stay, you can't wallow around in the mud and expect to come out squeaky clean. Speaking from experience, I only recently went back to work after 6 years. Steemit isn't the priority for me it was just a few weeks ago, but it's still a good outlet.

My free advice is to lurk around the edges and comment and post on what you want to while you earn a living doing something else.

Maybe it can become more enjoyable when the pressure is off to earn money with it?

Perhaps when communities arrive I will do that. But for the time being, not even having a browse is that enjoyable, because it takes too long to find something I'm genuinely interested in, and I will typically come across two or three things that piss me off momentarily before stumbling across that diamond I was seeking.

it takes too long to find something I'm genuinely interested in

I've noticed that lately too. Even some of the authors I really enjoy interacting with seem to be posting less. Maybe HF20? ;-)

"Nor do I ever have any desire to read anything I would have otherwise not read just so that some cunt will pay me in either attention or upvotes."

You have hit the nail on the head. I would say though, that while this is the central philosophy of SteemIt, it is also what makes it fun - in a way.

What I find difficult is the pretentiousness of it all. We even have people programming bots to punish people for self upvoting their own comments, whilst these people will form their own circles that will upvote each other's comments to oblivion.

I know that this is not what you are getting at, and maybe you are on the opposite side of my argument in this matter, but my point is that there is a lot going on on SteemIt that belongs to the control of dominating or sociopathic behavior.

It is a loss for us to have you leave steemit, we were wondering where you were, thinking maybe the dirty thirties were responsible, happy birthday son
( a bit late sorry)xxx we ve been working our asses off all summer, coming back home with no energy left to post anything worthwhile. We could have just posted random stuff, but it felt dishonest to just dump anything just to keep the machine going...
We can relate to everything you said, it is a noble thing that you follow your values and instinct. Know that you have a great pen, people enjoy your unique way of writing, you are witty and surely a great person to know in life. You have the talent this is undeniable, and who knows where it will lead you, maybe we will buy one of your books, maybe youll be back on steemit one of these days, who knows... We wish you the best of luck and will be here following you in case you come back ✌🏻️Elaine and Sebastien

Lol. I had enough dirty teens and dirty twenties, I intend for my thirties to be clean as a whistle lol.. for the most part.

I have a lot of respect for your decision not to just spam your followers with bullshit posts in an effort to get paid. I have done so a couple of times myself when I believed I needed the money, and I felt like an arsehole afterwards.

I think you are wrong. I have a shitty pen. Far too often I am misunderstood when I type, and so the content I create in future will be done so with my voice. I don't intend to leave shit open to interpretation any longer.

Thanks for the lovely words though, and I will probably post the odd thing here and there thanks to the advice of someone else in this comments section, but I simply won't be tailoring my content for Steemit any longer. If I do post, it will likely just be some thoughts I want to get out.

I wish you would stay but I do understand exactly what you feel.
Lot of "fuckers" around just like in real life.
I also would like to mention that I am truly sorry that I overlooked most of your articles. Don't know why. I would have voted because I always loved your blog.
I don't know how much VP I have left today but I give you my 100% as a come back inspiration maybe or if you wish a Good Bye 😭

I use the word fuckers as a synonym of people. I didn't mean it to be a fuck you. Lol.

You have absolutely no reason to be apologising. A lot of the work that gets overlooked is due to the site's shitty layout which they should have fixed ages ago, and certainly before extending post lifetimes to 7 days.

Take your vote back and give it to someone who still has faith in this platform and its potential to be a good thing for humanity. I don't deserve the fucker, because I have none left in that regard.

I understand your feelings. Unfortunately, when you have a larger and larger group of human beings that's what happens: everybody does their own interest and quality goes down by the minute.
And let's be honest, most of us are here for the money.
What I can't stand is these steemians that have a bunch of steem power, they buyed with their own money, and start bullying people around and having an army of "fans" following them while producing horrible content.

Money was part of the reason I joined too. I need it as much as everyone else. But, I am sick of earning it in ways that make me lose respect for myself, and so I will not.

You would be interested to know that a lot of the whales on here did not buy their STEEM, but mined it using a computer and a little electricity .

Ok, thanks for the info. Have a nice day, and maybe we'll meet again on steemit or on other platforms.

This is remarkable work.

Offended...still up-voted*

You shouldn't be a pussy then. People are offended too damn easily.

But I thank you for the upvote nevertheless.

Bahahaha!!!!! LOVE IT!

Lights a flaming bag of poo on @son-of-satire's front porch...

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No dude, I have to agree. I'm completely new here but you describe what I've seen here so far--lotta cringy behavior.

It sounds like we might agree on a lot of things. I've walked out on some jobs myself. Left the last one and now I'm an RV Nomad, trying to help others do the same. Where can I follow you elsewhere?

Thanks

That's pretty crazy. I have been thinking for a couple months now that I would quite like to have an RV as a home and just be able to fuck off wherever and whenever I like. Perhaps drive up the hills or the mountains with Vito and let him have a proper run about. Also, no one being able to send me mail or arrive unexpectedly also sounds pretty liberating lol.

I know what I am going to do next, but it is going to take a month or two to prepare it properly, as it is going to require a lot of artwork. But, when I have sorted the shit out and have a YouTube channel created for it, I will likely share the information on here.

Relationship are meant to help each other mate.

There is self interest behind every friendship - Chankya

Bummer man.
May you find happiness where ever you go.

It may not seem like it, because I come across entirely too harsh when I type, but I bring the happiness with me wherever I go. So, don't be worrying about me.

I wish the best for you, mate.

I totally understand where you are coming from but I've made a different conclusion. I think of going out and commenting on others material as mutually beneficial. Very little of my time is spent pretending to give a crap (I admit there are maybe 3 people I pretend to give a crap with because i feel that I could perhaps reach them by being direct if I first create a repoire with them and why not get paid while doing it?)

I go out and comment a lot and yes to some extent it's to build a following but more than that, it's to create a two way street. If I just wanted a following, I'd be out seeking a book deal or a record deal, I would have taken the three offers I've had to be on television. What I am looking for is to be an active member of a vibrant community, contributing to the benefit of others. I also believe that if I contribute enough, my needs will be met naturally.

Do I think steemit as a whole is a vibrant, meaningful, community ....not exactly, but it's an easy place to start one in some tiny corner of the platform. Showing interest in others is incentivized and while it may cause many to be fake, it also gets everyone to open their door in a sense and notice what's going on with others, which is good for me cause I've been kicking ass for years without anyone really noticing because I've refused to turn my work into a product.

That being said, with some of the experiences I've had here, it's not hard to imagine feeling exactly the way you do. Had things gone just a tad bit differently, I would probably have written a similar post around hardfork 19, and I will probably write a post like this when steemit goes mainstream and it becomes more difficult to find like minded people with the oversaturation.

I will have to check out your book. I'll look through your old posts as well. I do think there is a chance you might be one of those like minded people