If you want to win the debate on this topic, you should ask cyberdemon WHO did they help.
None of the examples provided was stuff she did herself.
Trying to help and then failing isn't the same thing as actually helping someone, which can basically describe these ideologies in a nutshell.
As they say... The road to Hell is paved in good intentions.

I mean, I guess I could kill people but it's ok so long as I donate a few bucks to charity, right?