The month of Ramadan is a blessed month. Many useful activities that can be done to fill this holy month. In addition to reproduce private worship, improve the quality of self, do not forget bersilaturrahmi. His goal is to strengthen the ropes of brotherhood, enhance mutual love and respect for fellow Muslims and fellow relatives.
One of the silaturrahmi events that Muslims often perform on this blessed Moon is to hold a Shared Fasting or a cool name called Bukber. Invite Bukber can be from anywhere. Starting from a relative or close relative, a work friend or a schoolmate, an all-in-one friend or an alumni friend, even from neighbors or open together in a mosque or mosque.
To attend this moment of "Breaking the Fast" there is an ethic to note, in addition to attending the invitation itself which is a tribute to the invitee. Moreover, the invite is a relative or close relative.
There is his Ethics while attending the invitation of Bukber from relatives or close relatives. Some things to note are:
- Dress in a simple, closed and polite.
Do not who invited is a relative or a relative of his own, continue to then be dressed. Like wearing shorts or sleeveless shirts. Respect the host and those who may be present at the event.
- Come early, do not close enough to close the time to break the fast. Why ?
If there is a light work that we can help-help to lighten the host, it certainly does not hurt. Moreover, the host is still a relative or our relatives. Her lady might be able to help arrange the dishes and the man might be able to help arrange the seating.
- Do not come just empty handed.
We can bring souvenirs such as cakes or fruits to create an atmosphere of togetherness and care among fellow relatives or close relatives.
- Pay attention to prayer time.
When the beduk has sounded, immediately break the fast to release thirst and thirst. Remember, do not overdo it! And before starting with a heavy meal like rice and side dishes, we should have prayed maghrib. Can bertema'ah or individually in turn depending on the willingness of place from the host.
- Keep your mouth and speech from unnecessary things.
Habit of gossiping or talking about people should not be done in the event of breaking the fast together.
- Do not make noise.
When there is a sense of blocking with one of the brothers, do not discuss it here. Appreciate the host and respect the guests who come. Personal problems should be solved between the fellow concerned only.
Well, if all the above points we have done, God willing, the atmosphere of breaking the fast together become more cool and kinship. Cohesiveness is always beautifully interwoven. With just anyone we can establish a harmonious relationship, why with relatives or relatives themselves can not? May Allah bless those who always keep silaturrahmi. Aamiin!