My Girlfriend got CANCER - what should I do?

in cancer •  7 years ago  (edited)

I'm here in the middle of the night trying to put my eyes on sleep but I can't. I can't help myself but to cry.

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[Mara Dagatan Labrador], happy, joyfull, Godly, caring, loving, understandin, thoughtful, beautiful ,full of humors. That's what she is.

We can't do show to people that we are in a relationship due to some reasons and there's so many eyes looking after us.

Despite, we had manage to keep our relationship well. We go to every places where there's just me and her, we chat each other almost every minutes, go along with the people and laughed with them, do some stuff we love to do, and a lot more happy moments between me and her. We have a very fruitful relationship I can say.

I'm so sure to myself and I am convinced that she is the only girl whom I'm going to offer my whole being.

We do love each other. We even missed each other instantly even after minute of being apart. We used to wait each other each day. We didn't even missed to say I love you to each other.

We have something in common which makes our relationship more stronger despite of me being publicly denied by her. Just for the people not to know that we are on.

But the sad thing was, she begin to feel severe pain almost every day. I thought it's just a normal thing to her, which she did tell me that she has some problem with her health. But as time goes by, I can't convince myself anymore that she was just facing a usual health irregularities.

I began to ask and ask and ask her but then she always deny. She will just tell me that she's ok, and that's normal, and when it'll happen it will happen, and that she only need God, God alone can heal, and God will never refuse to take good care of her... etc... and etc..

But then I continued to pursue my suspicion, and tried to gather as much information as I can. I don’t even sleep thinking for her suffering.

Until one day, a concern cousin of her took his phone and replied to me as an obedience to Mara's request for she's so busy doing some stuff and she can't reply. At first, I've tried to get her cousin's trust and it didn't get difficult since Mara told them almost everything about me already so the conversation flows well..

When I started to as about Mara's real conditions, I suddenly can't move my entire body. I am so shocked to know that Mara has a STAGE 1 CANCER.

According to his Cousin, only their uncle and Mara's parent knew about the issue. And that they decide to hide everything from her and to her brothers and sisters just to make them calm and avoid some serious things the issue could cause.

But according to what I've research, Stage 1 of Cancer needs immediate actions and is more than serious case a human could ever had. That's why I'm here to get some help about it and hope that you can guide me to what necessary action should I do at my fullest extent.

I don't know what to do honestly. I am seeking some advice. I don't know what's the of her parents that they don't seem or can't seem to take action about this, but I think for sure one reason is financial constraint. ..

I hope that at least you can give some comments about this. I'm suffering for a while now and I can't even sleep thinking. ..

If you're an influential person reading this, and think could help Mara in taking a proper actions, please personally visit her at Her specific address here in cebu.... you can contack Her relatives also indicated in her facebook profile, at here

Please take a moment to give some advice... 😭😭😭

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hey @josephfugata! so sorry to hear that. Just felt like sharing something I believe in and I even researched on it. Ages ago some guy was able to cure cancer by sound/frequency healing. It is basically giving the cancer cell a frequency that would destroy it. You may want to try that for your love one.

I appreciate your respond @ks10, I heard that also, it's some sort of radiation therapy. I hope that her family would do action as early as possible. How I wish I could do something for her... 😭