When the term education is used on others, there is a sense of condescension. It all seems to be the education of others. In fact, should we educate ourselves?
Lifelong education is now advocated, and it does not refer to learning new knowledge. Sometimes, self-examination and reflection are also part of education.
To educate children, first of all is to educate yourself and others. You should also start with yourself, preach and teach by example, and focus on taking responsibility by example, and do not do to others what you do not want. This person actually includes your own children, and you should do it yourself. If you don’t, don’t do it, why ask your child?
Educating children, in fact, I am a failure. The rude attitude and the way of coercion are undesirable, but I can only do this. The result is not very ideal. This is not my original intention, but the result cannot be changed. So laughing at myself and talking about education without knowing education is a rhetoric. I know that this is a common problem of people who have read some characters, but it is difficult to change.
The environment is to educate people. This has been proven in many ways. Tribulation is the teacher of life. It can make people strong, kind, and understand others. But in real life, there is no such a lesson. . This kind of thinking is a bit metaphysical. People hope that material life will get better and better. In fact, material life is getting better and better now. Of course, the chances of suffering will be much less. Therefore, deliberate pursuit of suffering is actually impossible.
Even those of us who have entered middle age have actually adapted to a comfortable life. It is hard to do it if you want you to fight hard. It is a bit hypocritical to ask your children in this way.
Typing words leisurely on the computer is just a kind of entertainment, so if a child plays his game, you can’t force him not to play. Even if you don’t let him play, he still thinks about the pleasure of playing. You are It can't be stopped.
Therefore, education should not be rigid, it should not be based only on the wishes of adults, and it should not be unreasonable. Adults should learn how to educate.