Having good, obedient, intelligent and religious children is a great hope for parents. Therefore, we as parents must educate our children early in order to be a child of pride for parents. Then how to educate a good and right child? In this article the author will try to explain how to you.
In principle it is theoretically easy to educate children, but in fact not all parents can do it. That's a lot of children who grow up and develop resistance and become a child whose presence is less expected because of having a less good personality. Well, below is how to educate a good and right child from an early age.
Teach independence and instill a sense of responsibility to children from an early age.
In general, parents will feel anxious too worried excessive to his children. Should not be too excessively worrying and worried about the child or protective ofer. It is not good for the cultivation of the child's personality. But try to trust your baby, but must be monitored remotely without any restraints or protect when he is guilty. Start to teach your baby to know his things, and tidy up after playing. Once your child is in school then teach him to help prepare his needs, give him enough allowance and try to teach him to save a little of the allowance.Teach and cultivate curiosity in children early on.
At the age of the children they feel to have a very high curiosity. When looking at things and something that is not yet known and understood then usually they will ask a lot. As a parent you would have to answer with an easy explanation and able to be understood by the child. If you do not know what is being asked, then in giving the answer as much as possible do not lie, but try to give the answer as arbitrary as possible. You should avoid the word "do not know". You can undertake to find out what the child is asking.
Teach and grow the ability to argue aak early on.
In general, parents will feel indifferent to children who express opinions. They assume that the opinion of the child is not important because it is still a child. Whereas if the child is ignored will be able to impact inferior and no longer dare to express opinions. We as parents must learn to always listen to children's opinions, if his opinion is not correct we as parents can correct it. For example we can respond well and positively when the child thinks by giving positive praise even if the opinions expressed at random.
But if your child including a child who has a shy attitude then you can provide feedback ddengan ask light questions that can trigger the little to express his opinion.
Teach children from an early age social, sympathetic and empathetic.
As a human being who has been modified as a social being, surely having social attitudes, sympathy, and empathy is very important. Well so that children grow up to be human beings who can appreciate others then teach as early as possible to them about how to appreciate others, how to appreciate the opinions of others and how to understand the environment around us.
You can teach your child how to give something to the person who needs his help, and teach your child's disrespectful attitude.
For example, when a beggar comes to your house, ask your child to give it.
Give a good toladan attitude.
As parents we must be able to be perfect in front of our children. Because parents are examples that will be embraced by children to adulthood. If we want our children to be polite, speak soft and kind words, then we should always behave the same as role models. But if we want our children to have a religious attitude, then we should set an example like a person who has a religious attitude.
From the above description we can draw the conclusion that in educating children must be really mature and do not forget to give enough attention. Do not overdo and not less, because both are not good for the development and growth of children.
Thus the discussion of tips to educate children to be good, obedient and religious. Hope can be useful.
By.musliadi85
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