let me tell you japaneses why your philosophy of winning the heart of the enemy isn't possible in the Mainland

it's not an island.

the simple fact that someone commited an act of war against China is not forgiveable. it's not something that can be walked back. as such there is no need to discuss, argue or win the hearth, just to kill, so that the others understand, you don't mess with china, some saw china in panda mode, and thought that it would be possible to attack, it's simply never saw the dragon in his dark tao mode... there is no way back.

let me tell you a story of this ethnic group living on the periphery of china, one day, they chose to become part of china. their leaders came to the center of the earth and never meet the one but still formalized their pledges of alliance with chineses officials. for years nothing changed in their lived. they even asked themselves if china had forgotten them. Until one day, a group of hostile started to arrive near them. afraid they run for help to china. Later china arrived, at night, standing and geared the ethnic group asked if were they planned to rest, chinese leadership told them to watch. while the hostiles were resting, flying fire lantern were launched, the entire hostile were killed, and off china was.