If you haven't developed your mind to handle a clever argument, trouble will arise. Don't go and embarrass yourself when you are initially engaged to him to know that he is vast. You can start now by reading extensively and learning more about the areas and topics that concern it.
Go home and spend time with your family, don't overwhelm it, don't let them force you while sharing the idea with your friends. You know what you want and the perception that you want him to see which one should be honest, then do things wisely.
Don't start with gifts, focus on friendship. Never give him the idea that you are trying to buy him or impress him. You lose it out of luck and if it is he who enjoys taking advantage of it, then you could be in trouble.
Show less than you have. A lady who will love you for being. Honest and respect him sincerely. Just be yourself.
Many marriages fail today because of these faulty foundations. They set the standard so high and couldn't keep up because they didn't do things with wisdom. It seems that the men sold a fake lifestyle to the women. Nobody deserves this. I know this because I've seen this a lot. Be honest with him and you will be shocked by the kind of loyalty you get from him.
