有一次跟一朋友去CBD某大厦,谈完事情时我坐他的车回去,到一楼门口时他跟我讲,让我等下,他开车过来,我以为他车停在该大厦停车场,等了一会后,见车过来时却从另外一边过来,于是有些开玩笑地跟他讲,
“我以为你扔下我自个回去了呢?”
我这位朋友笑了笑说,
“哈哈哈,那怎么会。我的车停在对面停车场,走过去花了点时间。”
我有些好奇不解地问,
“刚才那个大厦车位满了?”
我朋友回答我说,
”也不是,只是停在对面比这边实惠(便宜)很多,所以刚才就把车停在那了。“
我知道这个大厦停车费是比较贵,毕竟是CBD的重点位置之一,价格贵自然能理解,收费约在16元/时,马路对面也有个收费场,价格在10元/时,虽说每个钟能便宜些,但为了这几块大洋,值得吗?开着大奔的大老板,家里我也去过,近五百方的大套间,那地段的费用不是这所城市最贵的,也是比较贵的地方之一,对于他的经济基础和实力,那是毋庸置疑的。
但如果你了解我这位朋友的话,你就会发现这一切都是正常的,至少发生在他身上一点也不奇怪。我跟他认识几年了,一起出去吃饭、喝酒,绝大多数情况下都是他买单,从几百到几千都有,当然有时候我实在过意不去,也会偶尔买下单,但这毕竟是少数,毕竟多数情况下他都是抢着买单,几乎不给我机会,所以从这点来讲,我认为我这个朋友不是那种吝啬的人,相反,我认为是很豪气、很重情义的那种。
但是这样一个经济实力不错、人又大方的人,竟然会为了节省几块钱的停车费,而跑去百十米远的另外停车场,确实让一般人很难理解。多数常人的想法是,都这么有钱了,还在乎那么一点点钱?再说了,那点小钱,一般老百姓还都不一定能看得上眼呢。
但是事实确是如此,我原来跟他聊过这个话题,他当时跟我讲了件事情。他们家收快递比较多,很多时候是些大件,那种大件用较大的纸箱包着,每次他妈妈都是将纸箱收好,折叠起来,然后每隔一阵子就叫人拿去收了,虽说不多,每次换个十块八块的,老太太也很高兴,毕竟老太太也节俭惯了,而他自己从小受家里的影响,也养成了这个节俭的习惯。他说这不是有钱或没钱的问题,而是一种生活的态度,或者准确说,是对钱的态度。
用老百姓的话来说,就是该花钱时就要舍得花,但该节俭时就要节俭,一定不能浪费。
这可能就是他为什么那么有钱的原因之一吧,我心里想。
大伟哥这朋友的价值观很好,很值得我们去学习~
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是的,的确值得学习借鉴。
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时间也是宝贵的。如果不浪费太多时间那就应该节省,很多有钱人为了节省时间而花钱也是可以理解的。
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在不赶时间的情况下是可以这样。有时候为了赶时间,反而不太要计较成本
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很好的观念,值得学习
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对的。
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开源节流啊~
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的确如此
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现实生活中像你朋友那样的人已经很少
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:)
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也许节俭就是一种品德!美德吧!
为您的这位朋友点赞!
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是,对我触动也很大。
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同样的钱,用在不一样的场合和动机,有着不一样的价值!很让人深思的对话
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:)
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Wow very nice post

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好的金钱观是赚钱的基本~
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你说的对,我认为很有道理。
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An interesting experience a friend of thanks has shared his story ...
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一个人的金钱观 和他富有的程度并没有太大关系
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我认为这种对金钱的态度,如做生意交友大方,对自己该节俭时就节俭,不胡乱挥霍,是他富有的原因之一吧
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我想本周写一篇《价格的心理》 ,能很好的解释这个停车费原理。@rivallhw 敬请期待
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不错,期待着链接地址
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小生拙文《价格的心理》,请大佬不吝赐教。https://steemit.com/cn/@abeta/s003-the-pricing-psychology
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确实,该节俭时要节俭,奢侈之风不可长。
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对的老师
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哈哈,我也会有这样的做法。为了省几十块钱停车费,就改坐公交或者干脆徒步走过去,家里的废报纸会攒到一定的时候再卖掉。其实倒不是图这几块钱,可能还是从上一辈那里习得的习惯吧
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不错的好习惯。
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Good post friend @rivalhw
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我想这和从小的生活环境和父母的行为有关。吃过苦后,方可明白来之不易。换个角度来看,一个从小就生活富裕的人,再加上父母们那挥金如土般的作风影响,他们还会在乎那几块钱嘛!父母有钱,毕竟是父母的,通过自己勤奋努力得到的,才是属于自己的。成也富贵,败也富贵。奋斗才是王道!
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Very interesting experience, good job my friend, i like your post, thanks for sharing to us, i have upvote and resteem your post to more than 1300 my follower, greeting friendship from me @abialfatih in aceh indonesia
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it is amazing, amazing it is amazing, hope you keep work.and healthy and success always, thank you for sharing with us friend
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Nice post, thanks for sharing my friend
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Very well post...i love this post....thanks for sharing...dear @rivalhw
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Good post my friend... Success continues for you.
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your post is very good my friends
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观念很好
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是
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我认识的特有钱的朋友也这样,每次买单都特别认真的看单子(我以前都不好意思仔细看,特别是当着朋友的面),买东西也特别仔细的问明白。可人对朋友又很大方。当时我的结论和你一样:细节决定了人有钱。
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wow this is a great post and awesome,succes for you @rivalhw
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金钱和财富相比正确健康的金钱观财富观来说不值一提~ 您这位朋友生活一定很幸福,👍
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正确的金钱观,至少他们明白钱什么时候值得花,什么时候该节省。
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这种处世的态度值得很多人学习啊!
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