昨晚下班，和一位一点也不熟悉的同事同行一段路。一路上他不停的问我问题：
“你哪里人？”
“你住哪里？是租的房子吗？多少钱？”
“你来新加坡多久了？之前哪里工作？”
他一看就是个九零后，可是啰嗦的没完没了的。每次和这样的人对话后，我都陷入特别的自我讨厌：为什么我要回答这些问题？为什么我老是怕给人下不了台？
可明明是对方不懂社交礼仪啊！
特别真心的想请教大家：遇到这样的人，你会怎么对付呢？
我特别特别需要学习！
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这种情况，我可能会半开玩笑，譬如：你请我吃饭我就告诉你。
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万一真的请客咋办！
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那就回答那些基本的问题吧。一般能真的请你的人，至少还是个爽快的人。
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那你就吃，几个问题管一顿大餐，不亏，哈哈哈
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遇到这样的人真的一句话不想说，想赶紧远离。如果叔叔阿姨们问这样的问题还正常，年轻人还问这样的问题就有点费解了。
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假装要听电话说是叔叔习近平打来的。 :-)
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好，假装打电话、接电话是个方法。不过叔叔太高攀了我怕惹来更多话题。
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经常有国内来的大叔大妈一见面就问你工资多少。。。
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目前看来只能假装打电话、上厕所、耳聪了。
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一般来说，我在被问到不想回答的问题的时候，就会简单回答。如果对方“不识相”地追问，那我会打给妈妈或者朋友电话，把通行的这段路给熬过去。这样，既避免回答我不想回答的问题，又不显得很生硬啦
ps恭喜59岁啦🎉
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懂了，看来打电话这一招是比较管用的。是呀，昨天59了，不晓得这个月努力写字能达到60吗？
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原来是九零后同事，乍一看还以为是个大妈在调查户口呢…………
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可能喜欢某某人。
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嗯～～绝对有可能！
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花样年华男长了一颗大妈心。
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每次去理发，剃头师傅小王都要问这些问题。每次还会新增一两个问题，循序渐进地查老底。想翻脸又不敢，毕竟脑袋在人家手里。然后他还要说：“我发现啊，现在的人都不肯说自己的事。不知道为什么。”
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这个你可以参考我妹的做法：
一坐下，问，你学剪发多久了？哪里学的？就帮我修一下发尾，别给我剪短了。从现在这一刻起谁开口说话谁是傻x。
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hahhaahh 这个好是好，可我不敢用。。。
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我也不敢用这个……00后才有这气场……
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你猜。
你猜。
你猜。
哦，不用猜了，我是不会告诉你的。
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猴子又调皮了~
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我一般会捡起旁边一块石头 借机打断他 关心地问：哎 这是你掉的吗
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男人话这么多铁定对你有意思(*´艸`)
不过要真的讨厌又摆脱不掉的话就简单回答就好。
问：“你住哪啊？”
答：“住什么什么附近。”
问：“来新加坡多久啦？”
答：“记不清了，有几年了吧？”
类似这样含糊带过就好，一直这么敷衍下去，那个人自己也会觉得无趣，之后问题可能就少了吧？
还有，有些人你回答的太认真他反而会误会你对他有意思，所以如果很烦这个人的话每个回答里都不要加问句，简单作答，这样谈话就会很难继续下去，聪明人就不会继续啰嗦了！！
以上纯属个人想法，仅供参考(~￣▽￣)~
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en 用简单的回答晾干他然后自作没趣的走开，这个也不错！谢谢~
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避免和不熟悉的同事同行，如果已经在路上了，出门百米内的话：“有个东西忘了拿，你先走~~”，百米到一千米之间：“卡没钱了我去取一下，你先走~”，一千米以上：“我今天去那里坐车，拜拜~”
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你好！你是哪里人？住在哪里？做什么工作？
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寨见！~
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这个实用性好强，收了！谢谢。
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