朋友貴精不貴多

in cn •  8 years ago  (edited)

自從過了三十歲後,自己便很清楚,朋友貴精不貴多。尤其那些關係只限於Facebook的「所謂朋友」,我實在不想和他們分享我的生活日常。
其實,Facebook有何用途呢?於我而言,是讓我和朋友、學生保持聯繫;即使遙隔兩地,即使不能見面,但只要看見他們的posts,除了可讓我分享他們的喜悅時刻,也可讓我在他們傷感難過的時候,留言或私信,安慰、支持一下他們;而Facebook最重要的作用,是讓我知道朋友、學生的安好,知道他們依然健在,心中便覺欣慰。
其實,偶然我都會把Facebook上長久没有互動的「所謂朋友」剷走。當然我不是無聊到去check我的朋友名單,逐一剔選剷走;而是在某一天,突然看見某人的post,然後醒覺:「啊!是有這麼的一個人存在。」當我發覺我對對方的一切都漠不關心、無動於衷時,我認為這種「所謂朋友」的關係也没必要保持下去了。是的,這是我單方面的感覺而作出的行動(或者對方也有相同想法呢)。
總之,當某一天,你發現我已把你從朋友清單中剷走,請不要太過驚訝,不要太多猜測,其實只是因為以上說及的理由。相反,若你某一天覺得我其實也不是你甚麼朋友時,請隨心把我剷走,我,實在没有所謂/感覺。

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  ·  8 years ago (edited)

Welcome to Steemit! Try to make more friends here instead.
中文區也有人很多好好的人材,交朋友的不二之選。

A big warm Steemit welcome goes out to you Mary!

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