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一个人的失败,往往失败在最信任、最亲近的人身上。历史上这种例子很多。这种人并不一定是存心害对他有恩的人,像拿破仑在两个人的心目中,被认为他不配当英雄,一是他自己的太太,一个是他的一个老朋友,因为太亲近,相处太久了,就有不同的观念,在不知不觉中,会做出一些有害的事来。这都是恩与害,往往互为因果的关系,所以“恩生于害”这句话很重要。
姜太公流传下来的道家经典《阴符经》里面说“恩生于害”这句话,举例来说,像父亲打儿子,儿子挨打很痛,这是“害”,但目的在把孩子教育成人,这就是“恩生于害”。
中国乡下人有句老话,送人一斗米是恩人,送人一担米是仇人。
帮朋友的忙,正在他困难中救济一下,他永远感激,但帮助太多了,他永不满足。往往对好朋友,自己付出了很大的恩惠,而结果反对自己的,正是那些得过你的恩惠的人,所以做领导的人,对这点特别要注意。一个人的失败,往往失败在最信任、最亲近的人身上。
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中国乡下人有句老话,送人一斗米是恩人,送人一担米是仇人。
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有道理,适可而止。
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斗米恩,升米仇
度的问题
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有点“忠言逆耳”的感觉 哈哈
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对,是这个感觉
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中国最讲究的是做什么事都要把握好一个度,分寸很重要
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正解
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Excellent!
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You too
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