下午的时候,我删掉了微信里几个先前通过的好友。
究竟是什么原因呢?是我故作清高吗?不是,我又不是书呆子,也是俗人一个,没必要自装清高,相反,我更喜欢跟朋友们打成一片呢,而且我这个人其实很随和,性情也较为温和,一般情况下不惹事,从小到大都是老师和家长眼里的“乖乖孩”:)。
我的微信里,一般是很少删除已加好友的,除非是有时候对方实在让我觉得无奈之下,才会“痛下杀手”,下边我就来说下我遇到的情况,你如果有时间的话,也可以一起看下,看看你有没有也碰到这些人或这些情况。
我删除的第一种人是那种整天有事没事就给我发广告,而且一看就是群发的那种,见下图:
删除掉这类人,相信大家都知道原因的,谁都不希望被人当成垃圾桶,整天被人倾倒垃圾。如果是真的介绍产品或内容给我的,我也不会拒绝,至少不会当面拒绝,但这种信息一看就是那种群发的信息,对我来说几乎毫无价值,而且上述这个对方已经算客气了,因为还不是太频密,大约一个月发2、3次吧,所以我才将对方保留到现在才删除,但有些人就过份了,几乎每隔一两天就要群发一次信息给我,每次我打开微信,以为是什么重要信息,结果打开一看,你知道那种失望和失落感吗?时间久了(狼来了几次了),不免心中也有些厌烦,索性直接删除,眼不见为净(静)了。那些把别人当垃圾桶的人,也请不要埋怨别人把自己不当回事。
我删除的第二种类型,是那种你以为对方跟你在打招呼说话,其实是通过机器群发消息假装打招呼的,见下图:
之前时不时总有人发信息给我:干嘛呢?类似消息,我这人比较实在,看到对方发消息,一般时间或场合允许的话,总是会尽量回复对方,但每次回复之后都石沉大海,时间久了,次数多了,我方才恍然大悟,原来对方是用机器群发消息跟我打招呼,知道真相后心中难免也有点不太好的感觉,你把对方当人,对方却拿你耍猴,谁的心情会好?既如此,便果断删除。
我在微信中经常会碰到一些莫名其妙的人加我,没有备注,没有说明,就只有个美女头像那种,一看还是通过手机号码搜索到的,开始时我不明就里,以为哪个美女认识我,还通过下,几次之后察觉不对劲,这些人通过后就开始给你发广告,发垃圾信息。。。唯独就是不跟你“喝扎啤,品人生,谈理想”:),后来才知道,这些也都是别人通过机器批量添加的,一旦你通过(验证)后就开始发广告,唉,满满的都是套路。
也有一些人,会假装认识你,或者假装跟你在某个群里认识,但就是没备注,没内容,名字一看都知道是假的,而且也是通过手机号码搜索到的,见下图:
其实稍微思索下就明白,这种套路其实也很拙劣,如果真是在群里认识,你完全可以标注哪个群?或者也可以备注说明下信息,哪怕简单的名字,而不是通过手机号搜索到,要知道,手机号也仅11位,对于机器人来说,批量从头开始添加易如反掌。
你有没碰到过类似上述情况?或者你有遇到过其它的,不妨说来,也让大家都学习下,避免再被这些人骚扰。
Hey @rivalhw
Thanks for update of important social blog. Its necessary for all human to learn the attitudes.
All the best and keep it up
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我也是这样的,只要有人给我推送广告信息,我就马上拉黑。但是一般人加我、我都会同意,生怕有的人真的找我有急事而耽搁的!
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深有体会! 删人有种断舍离的舒畅感觉
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Thanks for information. Nice post
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Hey @rivalhw
This is great idea . I really like it because every person is free and have right to adopt rules in his life but we should avoid to complain with others on little contrary matters. If we have some elements contrary to our personality, thouhgt we should delete them instead of complaints.
Stay blessed and keep it steeming
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good friends story, and I agree with your opinion, unimportant friends can be deleted and will be easy in communicating
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微信上真的有,有时候真是太烦了就直接拉黑啦,哈哈眼不见为净!
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great one
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真性情!已经见怪不怪了,直接删除忽略
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这些联系就是广告的人我一般也会删除,除非和我的私交很好。
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a very good story my friend i will always follow you because you become the motivation for me, good luck always my friend @rivalhw.
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我的朋友都给我发保险和期货。。。
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哈哈,看来我的微信好友都不够智能呢,还没遇到过你说的第二种机器人骚扰。第一种倒是有,但是我一般选择屏蔽,没删除,因为好多都是N久以前的同学。删了怕有事找不到人。
不过要是不认识的人,我就删了。
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邮政很特别的朋友请访问我的博客我是这个帐户的新手请帮助朋友
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Good story friends, and I agree with your opinion, unimportant friends can be removed and will be easy to communicate ..
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嗯,同感, 碰到这样的就该果断的删除!
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@rivalhw 嗯,我也常常碰到以上的事件,尤其是第三类的。起初,我会保留一两个星期,如果他/她频密群发,我就果断删除。
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我特别头疼一类人,就是上来问:“在吗?”或者“有空吗?”
比较喜欢那种有事直接把问题抛过来,然后让收到消息那一方有选择回复或者不回复的权利。
哈哈,可能因为我这种怪癖,才被小伙伴说不懂社交吧~
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刚才跑题了...说到删人,我一般不会删,因为本来加的就不算特别多...
我的微信是关闭好友验证的,基本想要找我说话的都可以直接发消息给我,有点电脑没装杀毒软件,连防火墙都关闭的“裸奔”状态
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我纳闷,这么样发广告有效果吗?我怀疑是没有人去理睬他们的,可能一个销量也没有,我怀疑真是这样。
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有的,他们这样全面撒网总有那么几个会上当的,不然现在就不会是广告满天飞了
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之前,微信上流行一个小应用,上传照片,就给ps成军装,再转发到朋友圈。然后有朋友提醒网络安全。毕竟证件照一样的照片,自己个人信息会可能被别人利用的。而且,还真有人以我的名字添加好友。于是,我也清理了一批我叫不上名字的微信朋友。
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隔一段时间我都会选择删除一些不常联系的人,微商啊什么的,见到就删,浪费感情的呢(●—●)
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哈哈哈,看来大伟哥加过不少美女😂😂
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大伟老师让我想起前几年的一个笑话。
有个美女加我好友,主打感情牌,从不说投资,赚钱,没事回乡下种个茶,再没事男朋友失个恋,我就安慰啊,后来让我老婆抓住了,就没下文了。
后来我通过百度才知道他们究竟是怎么骗人的,哈哈
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我之前写过一个帖子,手动删了六七百个不联系的人,目前还有400多,绑定的手机号很多人都知道,但微信不能让人随便加,并且手机号搜索一直是关闭的,因为这个微信相当于小号,少部分网友知道就可以啦。
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台灣也不少這樣的人呢~
不過雖然我們不買單,但他們還是相信有人會買帳的 XD
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