前些天看到一篇推文,文章大致说,如果一个女生无数次主动,都换不来男生一次主动,那并不能代表他不会爱,只能说明他只是不那么喜欢你。
这种爱而不得,我们的一生似乎都会经历两次,一种是如文章所描述的一般,在某一个瞬间,喜欢上一个人,然后决定放下矜持,面子甚至自我去追求。在每一次被冷淡以待的时候安慰自己,只要再努力一些,他就会喜欢上我,然后在无数次冷漠中被击伤,直至认输放弃。
另一种,则是两个人相爱的天平失衡。曾经彼此眼中都是宠溺。渐渐地,生活的平淡似乎使我们都失去了主动去爱的能力,在爱情的路上,我们开始各自驻步,都希望对方能走多一步,去维系这岌岌可危的感情。到最后,则是在这僵局中疲倦,以分开惨淡收场。
这些回忆多半会被岁月封存,直到被某一段文字,某一句歌词击中,而再一起涌进脑海,但无论怎么去掩盖,再一次触碰到时,似乎还是会痛。
#突然好想你--五月天#
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