小人物故事：人穷不可怕，可怕的是思维也穷了

in cn •  7 years ago  (edited)

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珠海，2017年12月24日

叔年纪稍长，几年前因一次小事故摔到了脖子，差点丢了性命。治好病后，影响到了行动。年初时，求着老家一建筑老板，在工地当一个门卫。老板考虑到他的实际情况，安排他在工地生活区的轻松活，倒也让他有点事情可做，每个月还能领到几千块工资。

然而，他有一个特别的爱好：买六合彩。这事我是早知道的，不过是赔的多，赢得少。我早都劝过他：这事要是靠谱，我还去国外攻读博士还研究什么水泥呢？听姑姑讲，他一段时间之前中过一次彩，得了6千多块，可惜接下来继续“研究”，不但没有得到更多，反而把之前赢来的赔光了。不用说，这种赌性加贪性，无论赢多少，只要不收手，一定还会亏多少。

家里还有一表哥，在家闲着没事，不知从哪里得到一个赚钱的方式，交两千块钱作为押金，对方寄过来30幅画，所谓珍珠画：将一颗颗珠子贴在画上，制作好再发送给对方，大约一副回收价是200元。按一天制作一幅的话，一天也有200元收入。

我大概查了这样的项目，网上有反映这是一个骗局，对方在收货的时候以各种理由拒收，目的其实就是这2000块的押金。你想，毕竟你通过网上交给对方这钱，没有任何约束力去让对方退回这2000元押金。永远不要低估人性之恶。当金额又不到一定规模时，即使报警，也是不了了之。

看到这些生活在社会最底层的身边人，我有时候有一种很大的无力感，心里想：为什么他们赚点钱那么难？然而这有点像：他们为什么不吃肉？不争的事实是，越是处于弱势地位，还经常受这些不必要的事情所毒害，沦为骗与赌的受害者。这是什么原因？人穷不可怕，可怕的是思维也穷了。

两个小故事，多多关心身边的人吧。

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      ·  7 years ago 

    有些事情就是相互影响的，比如穷，那么就很想发大财，比如穷，可能没受到啥教育，受教育程度少更容易受骗……

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      ·  7 years ago 

    穷人把思维也弄穷了。

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      ·  7 years ago 

    活在了自己的思维里

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        ·  7 years ago 

      我身边也有这样的朋友和亲戚，不过你怎么劝他也没有用，我倒是有赚钱的方法，但他们都不相信，只能等自己赚了更多钱的时候在他们的下一代身上多投入点

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        ·  7 years ago 

      沉重的话题。

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        ·  7 years ago (edited)

      个人认为，一切问题是都是认知问题。如果真正认识到概率与不确定性原则的概念存在的人，都不会去赌博。因为，认清现实。

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        ·  7 years ago 

      然而你即使是告诉他们，也未必会相信和理解。

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        ·  7 years ago 

      是的

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          ·  7 years ago 

        对，思维穷就真的穷了。人性的贪婪与赌性真的很可怕。懂得适可而止的人往往才会见好就收，不会一步步沦落下去。

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          ·  7 years ago 

        我老家的邻居贪图高利息，得了几次的好处后，结果连老本也无影无踪！那天回家正好赶上看到他坐在地上老泪纵横，心里很不是滋味！

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            ·  7 years ago 

          这可能就是所谓的可怜又可恨吧。

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            ·  7 years ago 

          确实如此啊！

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              ·  7 years ago 

            难道是在去施工现场的时候 摔到了？

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                ·  7 years ago 

              接受教育程度，在很大程度上决定了一个人的格局。对坛子大神来说，敲敲键盘就来钱的方式，他们是不可能理解的，也是无法做到的。怎么说呢，社会分工不同，不论哪个层次的人，工作都是必要的。只是，像你说的，人不能太贪心，就不容易上当了。

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                  ·  7 years ago 

                我觉得认知很重要，不是来钱容易的问题，我就是再没有钱，也不会上这样的当的。

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                  ·  7 years ago 

                越是没钱，越想赚钱，利令智昏，何况本来知识层面就有缺陷。我就是如此啊。以后要耐得住寂寞，抵得住诱惑，扩展思路，把钱用到真正值得做的事情上。

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                    ·  7 years ago 

                  学校周边的彩票点买六合彩的老人也越来越多了......

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                      ·  7 years ago 

                    真是人为财死，鸟为食亡呢。

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                      ·  7 years ago 

                    坛子哥，好久不见，节日快乐呀🎉

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                        ·  7 years ago 

                      我今天在工地上，事不多，就随便写了这些小故事啦，我一直在的。节日快乐！

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                        ·  7 years ago 

                      有个ted的演讲说越穷的人脑内带宽越小所以越短视。这个很难改变。

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                          ·  7 years ago 

                        处于这种状态，很多时候都会陷入不良循环。周围的人都那么过日子，自己也可以那么过。这在我的地方也在发生。有时候，也觉得他们已经迷失了自己，已不知道自己想要的是什么，也没有去思考。可能环境上的改变才能把他抽出

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                            ·  7 years ago 

                          我也是无奈，只好写出来分享一下，也希望大家多思考思考。

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                            ·  7 years ago 

                          嗯，很好的参照。

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                              ·  7 years ago 

                            说的在理，生财要有道，不可盲目。

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                                ·  7 years ago 

                              坛子哥是幸运的

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                                  ·  7 years ago 

                                是的，我庆幸自己在年轻的时候能看看世界，思考思考这个多彩的世界。

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                                  ·  7 years ago 

                                与所处的环境有很大关系，就像那些老人买保健品，受影响。

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                                    ·  7 years ago 

                                  圣诞快乐！

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                                      ·  7 years ago 

                                    教育的力量和多出去闯的心态，多看看外面的世界和扩大知识面。就怕不思变在舒服区内失去竞争。看到这样的文章只能督促自己更上进

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                                        ·  7 years ago 

                                      人穷了大多数都这样。。。

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                                          ·  7 years ago (edited)

                                        物质决定意识，意识反作用于物质。贫穷抑制了正常的思维意识，于是各种歪门邪道就开始了

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                                            ·  7 years ago 

                                          主要还是教育见识不够吧

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                                              ·  7 years ago 

                                            (๑˙ー˙๑)读书还是有必要的，虽然一样解决不了问题，但能给一个更好的视角。

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                                                ·  7 years ago 

                                              改变是种很难的东西，社会节奏变快，这个过程可能会缩短很多

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                                                  ·  7 years ago 

                                                可不可以这样说：还是读书读少了。

                                                或者可以说：没文化导致的。

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                                                    ·  7 years ago 

                                                  好荒凉的珠海一片景，是不是在你们改造后会是一番繁荣

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                                                      ·  7 years ago 

                                                    说的很有道理。我认为人穷不可怕，但是思维若收到贫穷的禁锢，那就真的离一穷二白不远了

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                                                        ·  7 years ago 

                                                      环境影响也有的

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                                                          ·  7 years ago 

                                                        穷人什么都处于弱势群体，没钱，没人，没思想，没知识。。。

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