Happy birthday to my daughter! // 有娃不愁长,祝闺女周岁生日快乐!

in cn •  7 years ago  (edited)

Summary: My lovely daughter is one year old today! Happy birthday to her! This post shows my thoughts over the past year, love for kids, being parents.


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小家伙坐在澡盆里冲着我笑,心都快被她化掉了……

吃过晚饭,我看着孩子妈,她正在随着YouTube视频练习瑜伽,而孩子们已经睡着了。

我慢慢地回忆,一年前的今天晚上,孩子妈正为闺女的出生痛得要命,她每痛一次,我就记录一下,等待着出现电话里医院医生告诉我们的每五分钟痛一次,再立马去医院生孩子。

第二天早上一大早,我们就去了医院,一个小时不到,闺女就顺利出生了。

到今天,过去整整一年了,闺女周岁了。

光阴真的似箭,我一年忘年交曾说,有娃不愁长。再一次,我感受到这句话的无比正确。

一年过来,虽然有了两个孩子,虽然只有孩子妈和我带着他们,但总体上也没有感觉累趴下。留下的似乎只有孩子带给我们的快乐,尤其是闺女这一年来的变化,让我们重新回忆儿子那时成长的一幕幕

我结婚之前是极其讨厌孩子的,见到别人的孩子大多数时候淘气爱哭,还可能一身脏。到了自己生孩子后,发现自己特别喜欢孩子,他们的可爱,他们的一点点变化,会笑了,会翻身了,会坐了,会站起来了……做父母的我,在付出的同时,也收获了他们带给我的一个又一个快乐。

所赚的钱,心甘情愿地花在他们身上,希望他们健康快乐成长,希望他们将来努力发挥出自己最大的潜能,过一个属于自己的有意义的人生。他们能做到这样,就是给我的最好的礼物,就是带给我们做父母的最大幸福。

不只是在出生的瞬间感叹与尊重生命的伟大与美好,在孩子的成长过程中,我这做父母的也一步步学会如何成为好父母,以身作责,这也是自己的成长,而这些成长对于我来说,也只有通过这一件件具体的事情才能落实,否则很可能就是一句空话。

成长不分年龄,学习不分时候。我想,这也是孩子所带给我的收获。

当然必须指出来的是,在这日日夜夜的付出中,我也打心里感谢孩子妈,是她付出得更多。也正是成家生了儿女后,我越发敬佩女性的柔美与坚强。希望孩子们也有孩子妈的这些品质。

此时此刻,千言万语化作一句:祝闺女周岁生日快乐,健康快乐成长!

2017年9月18日写于英格兰

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We only know the value of right things only when we face it. We literally know the value of parenthood after being parent. And only then we came to know that what our parents do for ourself for our better life.
When a child smile at you, everything in this world look valueless to her smile. Her smile was worthy of anything which can turn any mood(sad or angry) into the happiest mood.
She is so adorable. i wish i could hold her once.
Happy Birthday little one. Wish for such smile face and fearless and worriless smile will be in your face for forever.

  ·  7 years ago 

孩子生日那天是妈妈最痛苦也是最高兴的一天。作为两个小美女的爸爸我深有体会。在国内的小县城生孩子,没有无痛分娩,媳妇承受着世界上最疼的痛。我在产房外焦急的等待。孩子先出来了,让奶奶抱回病房,放心下来。继续等着媳妇出来。生怕媳妇出来第一眼看不见我。

在微信群看到坛子哥鼓励新人,我来这里留言冒泡。follow me please.🍰

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

生日快乐。祝娃健康成长。

  ·  7 years ago 

祝你家两个带把的健康快乐。

  ·  7 years ago 

带把的😅

然后呢,你这是想订个娃娃亲吗?

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

YY等着你生闺女。

不行吧我闺女很可能长得丑,你闺女好看。

壇子兄很高, 帖子上跟閨女慶生日,字裡其實向壇嫂表達無限愛意

火眼金睛哪!

Nice baby

生日快乐!祝她们健康快乐地长大
送上最最最棒的祝福。

好可爱的宝贝!

  ·  7 years ago 

感谢,也来一个吧——还是已经有了?

生日快乐哦,小美女
坛子兄,一定是位伟大的父亲,因为正能量满满啊

  ·  7 years ago 

自己的孩子,当然爱意满满啦。

棒棒哒

CUTEEEEE!!!

  ·  7 years ago 

Thanks. Most of babies are very cute, nature.

有个好爸爸,顺带喂了口狗粮~哈哈哈这么感性的坛子叔

  ·  7 years ago 

虽然不性感,但感性还是有的~

难得呀,你只有在写家人的时候,才能感觉到你睿智里少有的感性。

好有爱啊!

  ·  7 years ago 

自己的孩子自然爱啊~~

cute baby

Happy birthday to you

  ·  7 years ago 

Thank you.

漂亮可爱幸福的小宝贝,祝你生日快乐!

@tumutanzi, v cute and lovely. Looks so happy and fresh on her birthday while taking bath,, happy happy birthday to baby.

  ·  7 years ago 

Thank you.

生日快樂 !! 可愛的小女孩
快高長大喔 : )

nice

so cute

  ·  7 years ago 

祝宝贝健康快乐!

  ·  7 years ago 

多谢!

赤脚大仙生日快乐!🎂🎂🎂

  ·  7 years ago 

这名号你还记得呢。😄

当然,这么别致

祝宝宝生日快乐!!将来像她哥一样用英音给你念幸福的小诗。

  ·  7 years ago 

还是标准的英语也不错的啦。谢谢你的祝福。

你小儿子读的那首他做的诗一直在我脑海里,很是羡慕你。愿他们俩健健康康的快乐成长。

祝小宝贝生日快乐,健康成长🎂

  ·  7 years ago 

谢谢你!

好温馨的文字呀

  ·  7 years ago 

谢谢TVB阿姨哈。

好可爱呀!祝宝宝生日快乐!平安健康!

  ·  7 years ago 

也祝你健康快乐!

好可爱的小朋友,生日快乐! 以u吃蛋糕🎂庆祝吗?

  ·  7 years ago 

会的,蛋糕肯定有的。

Thanks a lot.Everybody should think like you,because parent's love can't measure.Mother is the only one person who takes the pain of birth.Not only mother but also father also like , love and really love their children more than more....
I pray to Almighty God that keep you and your family in the happiness......

  ·  7 years ago 

Thank you for such lovely good wishes. I wish you all the best too.

哇真的的好可爱😊幸福的小女孩

  ·  7 years ago 

祝你也有一个女儿~哈哈。

哈哈坛子,还没那么快啦,婚都没结😂

祝周岁快乐!PS:我家姑娘30号的周岁,晚了几天

  ·  7 years ago 

这真是缘分哈,居然这么相近。

小公主好可爱,生日快乐🎂

  ·  7 years ago 

谢谢你的祝福。

Happy birthday to the most beautiful daughter in the world !!

  ·  7 years ago 

Thank you. All babies are very cute and worth the love from the parents.

My pleasure! You are right. But when a girl is your daughter is the most beautiful in the world

  ·  7 years ago 

Yes, that is absolutely true.

Glad you agree :D

  ·  7 years ago 

祝小宝贝生日快乐!

  ·  7 years ago 

谢谢美女阿姨的祝福。

  ·  7 years ago 

生日快乐!我是知道有个小棉袄的感觉好极了 :-)

The Quran is a child intelligence factory, a fact that the West is trying to hide !!!
The more words the child learns at the age of three to seven years, the greater the level of mental intelligence.
In a study conducted by the English and the French about the Muslim child in Ottoman times, they found that the 7-year-old child learns 77,493 words by memorizing the Qur'an and Ibn Malik's (and this is the equivalent of a young man of our time in his 30s)
The English and the French concluded from this joint study that the reason for the strength of the great Muslim individual is to write the Koran.
France and England abolished the books and replaced us with modern schools that depend on playing in the dangerous years of the life of reason.
Which led to the learning of the Arab child 3 thousand words only
While the Western child learns 13 thousand words ..
This is a cry to all parents and mothers on you Koran to build the generation that will greet this nation and the banner of Azztha.
Which made me happy

o( ̄▽ ̄)ブ 祝萌宝生日快乐,健康快乐成长!🎂

  ·  7 years ago 

希望像你的表情符号一样萌~

好可爱,肉嘟嘟的,长得很像你呢

  ·  7 years ago 

Happy Birthday! 女儿是父亲的小棉袄。再铁的汉子也会成为绕指柔。

  ·  7 years ago 

Happy birthday! 早晨起来看到消息,时差没让这祝福过期吧?!

我未婚之间
应该是之前吧
全文感受最深的是你老婆的伟大,一个人带两个孩子,幸好她有你,你有她。

Happy Birthday to your beautiful daughter! I wish a good luck and happiness in her life. She is looking so cute in bathing tab. Loads of love from my side :)

有女兒就是甜!

@tumutanzi --- congrats on your daughter's first birthday! She looks so happy and that smile is spectacular. To many more birthdays!!! She must make you so proud.

  ·  7 years ago 

女兒好呀! 跟大哥一樣,結婚前不曾想過要生小孩. 結婚之後慢慢改變了心態. 生了女兒之後就後悔生得太遲......

父母付出的是无私大爱,某个角度看,也相对平等,父母从孩子身上也获得了辛福感。

Wow that is a cute lovely baby <3 god bless him ! and you too my friend

cheers from venezuela!

居然也是处女座!

拐带小公举回我家呀~~~

  ·  7 years ago 

狼书记家,我们高攀不起。

不是打码了吧。。。

  ·  7 years ago 

其实也不算了,只是习惯性打一下码,免得我闺女将来找我算账。

“她每痛一次,我就记录一下,等待着出现电话里医院医生告诉我们的每五分钟痛一次,再立马去医院生孩子”,我怎么觉得你在做实验呢,哈哈

  ·  7 years ago 

理工科嘛……

闺女真是太可爱了!疗愈的笑容。

Happy birthday to your cute daughter!

she is so cute God Bless her many and many
thank you sir very much

Super cute! I have 5 kids of my own.

  ·  7 years ago 

当我还是中学生时,我偶尔会想。。。我应该不会结婚生子吧。。。就算结婚也应该不会做妈妈吧。。。结果我现在是三个宝贝公主的妈咪。。。哈哈哈。。。还记得每一个宝贝出生时的情景。。。我三个都是剖腹生产的。。。我的世界就围绕着她们三个转。。其实到现在还觉得自己是怎么成了三个孩子的妈妈呢?太不可思议了。。。ProudMommyMoment 是我其中一个常用的 post tag。。。记录孩子和我的活动点滴

  ·  7 years ago 

实在不好意思,忘了祝你的女儿生日快乐!

Happy belated birthday, sweetie! :))

So cute that you made her wear a blurry tube bra =P

小棉袄,真可爱。羡慕谭兄有儿有女,我只有一个女儿

真的好可愛喔!寶寶生日快樂!
爸爸好細心,寶寶這麼小就擔心她露點照外洩,不過這樣好像有點欲蓋彌彰,哈哈哈

祝你们家宝宝生日快乐,健康成长!

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