論講話的藝術 - 和我講話很費勁

in cn •  6 years ago 

水牛和蝴蝶是用來比喻男女的處事手法，包括聊天。

我是一隻不太會聊天的蝴蝶，有時很容易讓人誤會或成為話題終結者，因為我有時思維太跳躍，跳來跳去的，讓身邊的人聽得很費勁。

老公是一隻傳統的水牛，他問我答，我問他答，非常簡單直接。但有時輪到他問我問題時，他常常得不到他想要的答案。

就如剛剛他問我是否在家，前提是我們約好了要出門，他問我想他幾點到家，我說now! 他再問我是否在家，我就想他既然問我甚麼時侯想他回家，那就是知道我在家了，所以我就說我在家充電，手機只剩8％讓我非常焦慮。

然後，他就非常疑惑，我也在疑惑他的點。他問我是否在家，我只需回答是或不是，因為他第一時間沒帶 「預設」我在家。

這種情況在過去十三年來常常發生，剛開始會常常吵架，他生氣他得不到想要的答案，我生氣他沖我生氣。

後來，我慢慢發現我聊天的方法有時讓他摸不著頭緒，他也慢慢發現我會跳著來聊天，也慢慢減少生氣 （反正我也不太改得了）現在慢慢的他會耐心重複問題，我也慢慢理解他到底想要甚麼答案。

蝴蝶學習安定，水牛學習溫柔，這是一輩子的學問，我們有一輩子去學。

你呢？你是蝴蝶還是水牛？

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      ·  6 years ago 

    EXACTLY!

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        ·  6 years ago 

      Exactly 甚麼鬼

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          ·  6 years ago 

        意思就是你话咩都咁😂

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            ·  6 years ago 

          😂 我也不是故意的

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              ·  6 years ago 

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                ·  6 years ago 

              他变得温柔有没有拳击套的功劳🤔
              😂😂

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                  ·  6 years ago 

                @stepbie 你來回答！

                我覺得沒有

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                    ·  6 years ago 

                  exactly！

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                      ·  6 years ago 

                    你。。。又exactly甚麼呢

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                        ·  6 years ago 

                      不知道，跟着你老公就对了

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                        ·  6 years ago 

                      Lol haha

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                          ·  6 years ago 

                        阿龙看来也是蛮懂的！

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                            ·  6 years ago 

                          《男人来自火星 女人来自金星》

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                              ·  6 years ago 

                            真的！！🤣

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                                ·  6 years ago 

                              我怎么觉得，你俩呆萌呆萌的😂

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                                  ·  6 years ago 

                                呆萌？為甚麼？

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                                    ·  6 years ago 

                                  感觉很可爱

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                                      ·  6 years ago 

                                    還沒有放吵架的對話
                                    那叫一個六國大封相

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                                        ·  6 years ago 

                                      同感

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                                          ·  6 years ago 

                                        你說哪一位部分XD

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                                            ·  6 years ago 

                                          呆萌呆萌

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                                              ·  6 years ago 

                                            两夫妇都长得好看

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                                                ·  6 years ago 

                                              XD
                                              我們會結婚的確是神蹟
                                              我會告訴他 你說我們好看
                                              @stepbie

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                                                  ·  6 years ago 

                                                总有一天 你会碰到和你话路一致的人(´▽｀)ノ♪

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                                                    ·  6 years ago 

                                                  大概很難 沒事
                                                  我盡量融入地球

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                                                      ·  6 years ago 

                                                    神回答 與豬隊友, 笑XDD

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                                                        ·  6 years ago 

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                                                          ·  6 years ago 

                                                        水牛上的蝴蝶

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                                                            ·  6 years ago 

                                                          呵呵 說得很有道理

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                                                              ·  6 years ago 

                                                            戴比很跳tone

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                                                                ·  6 years ago 

                                                              是真的 但為甚麼我又改名啦

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