Talk about emotional investment, how to prevent a budding feelings

Money on the investment a lot, but today we have to say about the emotional investment.

What is the emotional investment? Is to give someone or something to pay mind and time, or to pay their own love.

In the book, there is a book called secrets page, people can put their secret in an anonymous way to post a post. Which the University of a lot of girls complain that some boys obviously know that soon, they have often bored themselves, initially may be feeling, but then feel less suitable for the number of chat will reduce the cooling. But the boys will still be wrapped around their own.

If you ignore him, do not reply to his words, he will even send thousands of words text messages bombing, or not open the topic and the problem chatting her chat. Every morning, please have a security, will be early to sleep, cool weather, wear clothes, rain, with umbrellas and the like, obviously not her boyfriend greetings. Very upset. But by carved courtesy or a classmate, can not not respond well. They will send some fun, time or money gift! So that girls pressure quite large.

Some obviously have ignored them, they even casually confession. Made a good card, then the boys will even go crazy, called life is called death, in the face of a book to write a thousand words and romance romance. Very scary and disgusting.

The most terrible is the number of these nausea men is very much. Ridden time is also very long, often unconditionally continue to pay, it is very annoying and great pressure.

How should we deal with these terrible men?

The simplest is in his investment in your time and mind before, a good stop out.

Because when a man began to have a good impression on you, will begin to spend your mind on you, will miss you, cry for you, laugh for you, began to care about you. A long time, he invested in a lot of your feelings. If you want him to let go, then many of them will cause great harm. They will collapse, say a lot of incoherent words.

At first, it is necessary to prevent him to put too much for you, or you will be very difficult to escape. Some people may have enjoyed this feeling at first, but there is a price for everything. By the boys happy, you can expect to have a chance to suffer you for some time. To learn to refuse, do not accept their flirting and goodwill. In the already no sense of time, should be said as soon as possible. Or when he is too much investment, it is too late, they will become terrible, in order to retain you and lose your mind.

The situation is a bit like when we spent a lot of time and spirit to put in one thing, hoping to get a return. But the final penny did not. People will naturally be unhappy, and even use the way to get back the reward you want. In fact, many of these boys are not like you, just do not accept the loss of the feeling. After a few months they will find a new object.

Money on investment is the same, some people will lose money when the cover, furlide goods, and constantly injecting funds hope to turn this, slowly losing their rationality. But the final loss is greater.

So everything is best to maintain a sense of balance, always do not lose their reason.

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