Whether in life or at work, we often have such a standard of expectations for a person, that is, to be "reliable". To make friends, we hope to find a reliable partner who can confide in each other and treat each other honestly. Fall in love, we hope to meet a reliable person, worthy of trust for life; At work, we want to have reliable bosses and colleagues, who make fewer detours and do more practical work.
People who are reliable tend to be very popular. In other words, being reliable is also a very high evaluation of a person. Therefore, become a reliable person, is the direction and goal that we should strive for.
There are usually six traits in a person who is truly trustworthy.
First, we will honor our promises and honor our words.
A very important criterion of whether a person is reliable or not is to see whether he keeps his word, whether he can keep his word and keep his promise. One of the important reasons why some people give people the impression of being unreliable is that they do not keep their promises. They change their mind again and again when they have promised to do so.
If you keep breaking your promises, it will hurt your image in the other person's mind. So think before you make a promise about whether you can keep it. Once you make a promise, work hard to keep it and never break it.
The second is to be modest and polite, not bragging.
Whether a person is reliable or not depends on his attitude towards others. As the old saying goes, real ink silent empty ink ring, half bottle shake bottle. That is to say, the more people who have no real talent and learning, the more often they like to talk, while those who have real strength, usually very composed, low-key.
It is a very unwise way of dealing with the world to make a good mouth, as if nothing can be done, but frequently hit the face. To be a down-to-earth person and work diligently, the world still prefers people who are down-to-earth.
Third, we have a beginning and an end.
Just now, I mentioned that we should try our best to fulfill our promise to others, which is what a reliable person should do. But this does not mean that "promised things can not be done" must not be a reliable person, after all, there will always be all kinds of accidents and emergencies in the world, as long as you can do timely feedback and communication in the process of implementation, everything explained, it will still make people feel reliable.
We should inform the other party in time of the degree of achievement and substantive progress. If it is determined that it cannot be completed, it should be informed as soon as possible so that people can be prepared and take other contingency plans.
Fourth, they are kind-hearted and have principles and bottom lines.
The reason why people with poor character can not deep friendship, is because they often have no principles and bottom line, for a little selfish interests, often can do things out of line. Obviously, such a person is not reliable.
A truly reliable person, its character and moral level is certainly excellent. This is a very straightforward and valid criterion. The more kind, the more excellent character of the people, the more reliable.
Fifth, excellent ability, have the strength to do things well.
In the workplace, a reliable employee must have excellent work ability. Because you only have such strength, have the ability to give down the work to complete well, others will rest assured that the work to you, will think that you this person reliable.
In life, you have to be able to do a lot of things beautifully, this will let people think you are reliable.
Empowering yourself is the right thing to do and worth doing all the time.
Sixth, there is a sense of responsibility and responsibility.
We often say that attitude determines altitude. Attitude is the embodiment of responsibility and responsibility. Whether a thing can be done well or not, ability is one thing. On the other hand, attitude sometimes determines the result more.
If you have a negative attitude and don't want to take it seriously, you will be less motivated to do it. In the end, you will be more likely to do something badly. Naturally, people will feel unreliable.
So from now on, please try to be a reliable person, your life will be more and more smooth.
