Complaining people in the world can be roughly divided into two categories: one is a dreamer who talks but does not do.
Another kind of people are "full-time" complainers who don't even think about it, but only complain about the injustice of the world. Let's take a look at how these two kinds of people's lives are blocked in complaints …
In London, there is a girl named Christine. Her father is a brain surgeon in a large hospital with a high reputation, and her mother teaches at a famous university in London. Christine grew up in such a very happy family.
Since Christine became sensible, she had an extraordinary love for the career of actress. When she was very young, she often learned to sing like those singers on TV and shook her head with a microphone. Her family was always amused by the wonderful performance of this little man.
After going to junior high school, Christine strengthened her ideal of becoming an actor. She felt that she was born with the talent of being an actor, because even if she didn't speak, she could use her body to express whatever she wanted, either humorous or affectionate.
Friends are very willing to chat with her, because her strong language skills and rich expressions and body language can always make others feel relaxed and happy. Moreover, Christine also has a unique trick, that is, she can shed tears at any time, no matter where she is willing.
She often said: "As long as someone can give me a chance to show my face in front of the camera, I will conquer all people with my smile and performance." Christine has a strong desire to be an actress, but in reality, she has not made any efforts for this ideal, because her parents don't object to her career planning as an actress, but they don't seem to support it. And she herself doesn't know how to realize this ideal by herself.
As the days went by, Christine went to high school, university and graduate school according to her parents' ideas and arrangements, and then worked as a lecturer in a university.
As time goes by, Christine is getting farther and farther away from her former dreams, and her former ideals will only appear in the complaints when her work is not satisfactory or she is depressed: "I could have become a world-famous actor like Bergman, but I was born at a bad time, and I didn't meet anyone who appreciated me. I grew up so big that I didn't even meet a talent scout ... Alas, no one in the entertainment industry came to dig me, so I had to spend my time as a teacher.
Compared with those doers who are busy devoting all their time and energy to striving for the realization of their ideals, dreamers seem to have more time and energy to complain. After talking about their ideals, they are busy sighing about the injustice of reality and their incompatibility. As a result, their ideals become heavy in the complaints and complaints of these visionaries, and life seems to be full of bitterness because of the heavy ideals.
In reality, it is impossible for dreamers to achieve anything, because they are afraid or unwilling to fight for their own ideals at all. All they can do is hold the ideal that can never be realized, and it can also be said that they are fantasizing about the miracle. Complaining has naturally become a tool for them to balance their emotions or escape from reality.
