Complaining is equivalent to walking barefoot on stones, while optimism is a pair of sturdy boots.
The complainer thinks that he has experienced the greatest difficulty in the world, but he doesn't know that the people who listened to him have also experienced these, but they feel different.
What is the complaint? Complaining is like burning a balloon with a cigarette butt, discouraging others and yourself. There are several worthless behaviors in the world.
For example, selling a boat in the desert, storing fish bones, and then complaining. To be tolerant, complaining is natural. "It's not easy to live in Chang'an", shouldn't others not allow others to talk about distress?
However, complaining is not advisable, because you complain, you are tantamount to pouring water into your shoes, making the journey more difficult. Suffering is one thing, complaining is another.
The complainant thinks that he is the strong, but the society is too unfair, which is like saying that people all over the world are collaborating to destroy his success.
Complaining is different from admitting one's failure frankly. Those who dare to admit failure will win the respect of others.
The complaint is a mediocre person who has obviously failed but dressed up his wound as a flower.
People are easy to sympathize with the weak, but because of the declining popularity of complaining, they will not get the sympathy of others. After complaining, the complainer's mood will get worse, and the stones in his arms have not decreased, but increased.
As the saying goes, letting go is happiness, including letting go of complaining, because it is a heavy but worthless thing in the heart. People tend to fall in love with those who are optimistic, but in fact fall in love with the transcendence they show. The confidence, courage and faith that life needs are available to optimistic people.
While benefiting themselves, they also infect others. Optimism includes open-mindedness and tenacity. It makes people feel that difficulty is never an obstacle to life, but a foil for courage.
When you are with optimistic people, you will also get optimism.
There was a beautiful woman who took her half-life savings and came to a big city. She was going to open a beauty salon there and live her life peacefully. Unexpectedly, when she was about to get off the train, the money was stolen. Stole it! She stood there all at once!
But after a while, she thought again: It's just a loss of money, I haven't lost everything I have! I still have friends and family, and complaining will only make my face older!
Later, that beautiful woman finally borrowed money to open a beauty salon, and the business became more and more popular. Because people believe that for a woman with such a beautiful face, her skills must be top-notch. In the end, the woman became a millionaire. Look! What an open-minded and smart woman! She knows that complaining is useless.
In fact, in your life, as long as you are like that woman, you will succeed because you have not lost everything. Think about it, there are so many people in this world who are more difficult and poorer than us. Don't they still live well?
Therefore, we must be optimistic in our minds and face every day optimistically, you will really succeed! Many people complained about the difficulty of passing through, and fell silent when they found it was useless. Complaining is equivalent to walking barefoot on stones, while optimism is a pair of sturdy boots.